Is it wrong for me to ask guys to wear a condom?

Is it wrong for me to ask a guy to wear a condom? I was dating this guy and he made me feel guilty that I would ask that. I lost my health insurance so I could afford birth control anymore. I didn't want to get pregnant and he didn't want me to get pregnant but he still would get upset with me. He still tried to sleep with me but I would say no. I just wanted to know your thoughts...
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  • if he liked you he would offer to pay for your birth control.
    why do girls only choose these kind of guys?

  • No it's not wrong to ask a guy to wear a condom. The last thing you want is HIV, AIDS or Pregnant.

  • No. End of story. Its your right, and if they don't respect that then you shouldn't let them in haha

  • Always use a condom. HIV and other STDs are rife.

  • That guy is bad news. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into having unprotected sex. If a guy makes you feel guilty for being safe, he's not mature enough to have sex anyway. This is just one of those things where you need to be firm and not change your mind, for the price you may pay otherwise is way too high.

  • That's a completely reasonable (and sensible) request you made, you could ask him if he's willing to pay for your contraception if it's that important to him, otherwise he should just wear a condom. You have nothing to be guilty about.

  • No it's not at all. If the guy is upset, then his a selfish bastard. It's not wrong to want to protect yourself from getting pregnant. Besides you never know were his been earlier, get him checked for std before you do it. Those guys that act like that must have done it to the others too, and you don't know if they had some kind of std do you?

  • Absolutely not but they just dont like

  • Fuck no! Good job hold ur ground!!!

  • No, but they'll whine or get pissed just the same. It's just how many guys are.