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Is it normal to poop right after anal sex?

Last weekend I finally gave into my friend that had been begging me to try anal sex with him, well we tried it and really hurt at first but got better as we kept going. After he came and pulled out I pooped the bed. It made a real mess and he was grossed out. I couldn't help it but it just happened he had poop on his penis too. I was so embarrassed and after I cleaned off his penis and the bed I quickly left. Now at school he won't talk to me and I think he might of told one of his friends about it.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I had anal sex today for the first time because my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years and we kept doing sex on the VAG and avoided anal because we were afraid of sti, infections and especially Me pooping. But we were really curious about anal sex, so i searched a lot about preps for it for first timers and did them. I was really excited for today and yeah we did it. Yay! But yeah i feel you. Before we had sex, i cleaned out my anal and everything. But i don't know why after we did on the anal part, there was a small something yellowish on the bed. yeah figured *poop* and it wasn't just one but there were two. (He had condoms on so fortunately..) And i was damn embarrassed about it and like covered it or something. And my boyfriend never said anything about it. He's such a gentleman. <3 Tho its really embarrassing but the point is, its supposed to depend on the person. I'm lucky cuz' i have a boyfriend who really accepts me and stuff. And i know that if a man loves you, he loves you even you poop his penis or what. So have sex with a man who won't just beg for you to have sex with him, but begs for your love. Speaking of, your friend was the first one to approach you about it, you have nothing to be ashamed of. If he harass you in public, just tell him how bad he was at anal that you had to poop his penis to show it.

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  • I've had anal sex over 50 times and it has happened to me at least two times.

    Twice with the same guy. You see, he watches porno and thinks that my hole is going to be has lose has the sluts that are on the tv. My hole is tight you cannot just slide straight into it. He lubed me up and started banging me hard. During the middle of our sex session he pulled out and was freaked out. He ran off into the bathroom and started washing his dick as if there were shit on it. I mean asshole, you had a condom on. How could it be on you in the first place? I did not know what happened until he left and I discovered the condom. He's such an ass!

    I suggest when you do anal sex you have the guy start slow until you get used to the act to avoid pooping.

    Guys who are scared of shit are assholes. If he told all of his friends he's obviously an immature prick.

    • Awesome! Perfectly said!

    • Sorry ofr saying like this, but most guys would love to see it happening, me for exemple. I can't judge about his feeling, but if he told it to others it's really an idiot attitude. There's a real illusion about the perfect girl, fart during sex or shitting bed after it is really normal, I've got the proof once. If I were him I would calm you down in order to don't to don't cause shame, finish the sexual act and finally wash you with the care you deserve, just normal.

  • I only done anal twice with my boyfriend of 5 months. First time, I was surprised I didn't shit on him. Even though I felt like I did. Second time he pulled out I noticed small small pieces of shit on his dick.. I guess I didn't dig deep enough like I did last time before we tried. (Cleaning myself that is) I know he seen it because I could, but he didn't mind. It's normal :/ we showered. He didn't make a problem out of it but shitting after anal? Never happened until my second time trying anal I think he triggered something because as soon as I sat on the toilet, everything just rushed on out. Nasty, I know. But according to others it's normal

Most Helpful Guys

  • I am sure You are well over this, but I hope you don't feel at all bad about it. Sometimes girls poop the first time during anal because their bowels are not used to the stimulation -- plus You probably did not know You should go before You ass fu ck. He was SO immmature about it. It is a risk of anal that is not that big a deal. I only had one girl really go, but it was kinda my fault. It was the third time I ass fu ked her that day, and all the come and lube just made her go. We were outside, so it did not get messy per se. I used my own underwear to wipe her ass hole after the fuc k. She said that felt wonderful, and I acted like a gentleman. We ass fuked a LOT for months after this -- but she never really went -- at least a lot -- again. So You learn to control your bowels and they get stronger. This girl could suck my penis with her rectum by clenching and flexing her rectum. Best sex of my life. So HE missed out. You did not. Hope everything worked out OK!

  • Well for one he really should have done his research before he asked you so he could do it right!! You need to have cleaned that out before you started and yes it will make you poop if you don't cause of the suction of him pulling it out!! Its not your fault its a natural reaction your body makes!! And he is an asshole if he goes telling all your friends about it!! Thats just messed up!! especially after you did that for him!! Not many girls would be up for doing something like that with a friend!!

    • Indeed, is highly recommended, you clean yourself out before the act, otherwise you could make a mess. That guy is a retard!

    • Wait how are you supposed to clean it out before the act?

    • It is so normal. I once had anal sex with a black guy and he was drilling my ass so hard and so deep that during the act I pooped on his cock but he was so gentleman and kept fucking me until he finished cumming then we both went to wash. Most women may poop during anal sex if the guy fucks them so deeper and so harder so nothing to worry about. Your bf is an asshole !!!

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  • I have never pooped the bed; however, since he was the one wanting you to try it with him he should not be passing judgement or ignoring you. If you ever want to avoid this happening again recommend your partner wear a condom also- if at all possible be aware of what you are eating 24 hours prior to anal sex. There are also ways you can clean yourself out in a healthy way.

    • I'm new to anal sex myself. What ways can you clean yourself out?

  • Natural consequences. I really wish everybody that is thinking about trying this would read your story and the answers in this Q/A thread.

  • Well, he asked for it. You have nothing to be ashamed of. He is a total jerk. If he did tell people about it, he is not worth the time. Just chalk it up as a sexual experience that you will know more about when another guy asked you to do it.

  • As embarrassing as it is, did you enjoy it. I have an anal before and even if you poop earlier in the day there can be poop on the guy dick. its something different to try I guess as it does hurt the first time.. If he told his friends he a jerk. How old are you

    • I've had it happen a few times and I have to say the ass fuc k just got more intense. We both fu cked harder.

    • What are some healthy ways to clean prior? And how long should you not eat before doing the act?

  • Yes, it's normal. Lol ass is ass. I would watch how he would feel if a dick was stuck in his ass. My opinion is that if a guy is not morally ready for the possibility of getting dirty during this type of sex, then he is simply not worth enjoying our asses.

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