Is this normal for a blowjob?

So I gave my first blowjob (ever) to this guy I have been seeing. He always said that it was hard to make him come and that he lasted a long time (which was evident from the few sexual encounters we have had prior). I found myself actually enjoying the blowiob, teasing him at first before getting serious. I lost track of time, but he said the blowjob lasted about 5 minutes before he came. I swallowed about half his come, but a lot of it ended up falling out my mouth. He claimed that it was the best orgasm he could remember, and that he's never come that much in his life. He even mentioned this intense feeling in his chest that it gave him. He showered after the blowjob, and kept saying how he could still feel it. Ten minutes later, before we went to sleep, he said he could still slightly feel it thrumming through him and that he basically felt high from the experience. I just find all this really confusing, mainly for these three reason: 1- he said it's hard to get him to come, especially with a blowjob; 2- it was the first blowjob I have ever given; and 3- I went online to find out more about this but I've found a lot of information that counters it. So, my question is, was this normal? Could I just be good at blowjobs?
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  • You give really good head, that's something a lot of girls would love to know how to do. Be proud of it. And you got your boy off, in spite of him saying he's had trouble, and the fact that he felt an intense buzz. Amazing! Girls are always asking what they should do and if swallowing is even safe. You've earned a stripe, wear it proudly.

  • Maybe he had a spiritual experience :) Those pulsating waves emanating from the chest, from the centre, sounds like it. You've reduced everything here to the physical, but what about the intangible. What about the level of connection the two of you share?

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  • when I started dating my boyfriend of 10 years we started out doing both... then he gradually enjoyed blowjobs more and that's all I was doing after awhile... personally I didn't mind... you seem to like the experience as well... so enjoy it... blowjobs are very sexy to give.

  • Pretty normal most guys will cum withing five minutes of being blown. The amount of cum I swallow varies depending where in my mouth he lets it go. I've had times I took it all and other times it dribbled down my chin.

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    • What if you can see the pleasure of his facial expressions? Do you like that?

    • I must confess, watching a woman dribble cum out of her mouth is really hot! It seems so naughty to see it.

  • Sounds like you have a natural talent for cock sucking and cum swallowing. That's a good thing. Welcome to the club. Keep doing it regularly. You'll get better and better at it and enjoy it even more.

    • How many years experience have you been doing it?

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  • It's normal. I'm guessing he likes you, right? So that helps. And you probably give a great bj. Keep up the good work! ;)

  • I'd say it's normal. I've received blowjobs from all my sex partners and many have given me out of body experiences. It's funny that I can have vaginal sex with my partners for hours without climaxing. I have a pretty good sense of controlling that climax urge with Kegel flexes, and short pauses to change sex positions etc... But when she takes control of my c*ck with her mouth, I'm convulsing with orgasm within 10 minutes. Also, the more passionate she is when she is blessing me with the blowjob, the hotter and wilder my orgasm is.

  • Hey there,

    It depends. For example I love eating pussy. Some women I can make them cum almost instantly, and that's it. Some I can make cum over and over until she begs me to stop and some women I can't get off at all no matter how long and how many tricks I use. I was taught by a lesbian (long story) but for all intents and purposes I feel that I'm at a level where I can get almost any woman (that likes to get her pussy eaten) to cum. Blowjobs are the same thing. As a student of the blowjob, at your current level of expertise, you will find you are able to get some guys off (because it feels so damn good) but others you may not. As you give more and more blowjobs, not only will you be able to get him off faster, but you'll wind up in a place where you can make him cum whenever you want. You'll find that at that point, you can probably make most (healthy) men cum. Some dudes have medical issues that prevent them from cumming. One thing is for sure, if you love giving head, then it will be an amazing experience for you both. Nothing worse than getting head from a woman who is not into it. She may be good at it, but in my experience, it's the women that love to suck cock that give the best head.

  • Congratulations 🎉👏

    Welcome to cock sucker Team haha 😆

    My first was absolutely unsuccessful. I literally can't take it in my mouth except tip of head, and I also had constant vomiting urges. So he didn't even cum.

  • sounds like you are good and/or he is soo into you that you turn him on more than norm

  • I'm glad you both had a great experience. It takes me a little longer to orgasm from a blowjob then from sex or a handjob , so he sounds normal. How is sex with him? Does he have the same feelings/orgasms? Does he get you off also? You deserve some great orgasms also.

  • I think it means you are very good at blowjobs. that's where all the evidence points to. So you know how to please your guy...

  • This is possible especially when you said you were enjoying it. It would be obvious to him that you were by how you were doing it which makes a BIG difference (the teasing first etc). It's a turn on if we can tell you are genuinely enjoying it which very well could've been a first experience for him (a woman really into it and not just for him or pretending to be).

  • i think he must like you a lot

  • Him saying its hard for him to cum especially from a blow job tells me that he has had sex or at least a blow job before. Or else how would he know?

  • Giving a wicked beej is key to any man's heart. Sounds like your amazing at it and I'm jelly of your boyfriend

  • You gave him a very intense INTENSE orgasm and it is very normal for him to feel that way. And yes, you probably are a natural at giving blowjobs and you should feel happy about that. There is nothing wrong with making a guy cum in your mouth faster than he believed possible. That is a good thing

  • He is just a very lucky guy.

  • I would say you give a amazing blowjob

  • Some people are just naturally good at it

  • It means you are good at it

  • I would say that you did a great job, he said it was amazing, he came a lot, thanked you many times. not bad at all for your first blowjob.
    Although if he does have chest palpitations I do suggest he go see a doctor.

  • Just take his word for it that he really enjoyed it and don't over think it.

    Lucky guy!

  • You deserve a tiara that has the words "Princess Blowjob" on it. You are gifted.

  • Nothing beets a good blowjob so apparantly you did do it in a way he liked. If a blowjob is done well it is het best thing you ever feel.

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