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My girlfriend wants sex all the time and I can't keep up
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My girlfriend needs me to have sex with her three times a day. I use to love it but now I'm can't even say no to her without her crying and I can't stand hearing her so I give in. I'm really wore out from all the sex. I told her to cut it down then she starts think that I don't love her anymore and gets upset so I end up having sex with her anyway. I am guilty of spoil her a lot when come to sex but I do wish she would grow up about me saying to her. any idea?
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What Girls & Guys Said
1 2She's a sex maniac, no more and no less! She's obsessed with sex and it's taken over her life like alcohol and drugs can do. If you don't want to become like her you need to settle her down and tell her what it's doing to your life. If you keep it up, before long you'll either be like her, worst than her, won't be able to stand her or sex or both nor be much good at anything else. So I guess you'll have to decide where you want to be a year from now. Sex has the power to overtake a person's life once they let it get out of hand.
Try telling her that guys can't do it that often, and it starts hurting after a while? My only guess, sorry.
she sees sex as the only way for you to express your love. My guess is, the reason she is so sensitive about it is because you never show affection in other ways, or at least not the way she wants.
Guys, please remember that its NOT that if you love her, the way you show her that you love her ISN'T GOOD ENOUGH, its just that she doesn't understand it. She expresses love in other ways, and therefore communicates love in that way. For example, my guy is very huggy, kissy, into massages, etc, but not so much with talking. I used to think he didn't love me, but it turned out he just isn't as comfortable verbally expressing his feelings for me. As long as they equate, I'm happy.
That's a really good point, I was a little too blunt in what I said. But I'm drawing on my experience with my ex, who never told me he loved me, so as a result all I did was wanted sex.