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Ok, so big breasts are better. Got it.
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I've been reading answers here on GirlsAskGuys. Answers to girls asking about breast size. And while men get all "small breasts are so beautiful!" when an insecure small chested girl is asking, the moment big breasts are put into question, then "small breasts are not attractive!". Why do I believe the latter most? Well, obviously just look around and SEE how many big breasts are placed in ads, Playboy, Maxim (or whatever crap) and of course porn, strip clubs, prime time, etc. Got it. Bigger IS better. Stop lying guys. I know a couple of you prefer small breasts. But the vast majority (as a lot of you have said) prefer and give "preferential treatment" to women with large bosoms. And it is noticeable in real life. Yes, I'm bitter, and hurt and frustrated, because sure I may have other appealing qualities, but what gives? the moment a woman with the same great qualities walks by with her huge cleavage then I'm just not going to be as sexy. Plus, it's so stupid, sometimes people will say "well, maybe you don't have great breasts, but you have beautiful hands". yeah, because HANDS are sexual! I'd like to feel sexy, to feel like someone capable of making men lust after me. One fundamental truth about women is that we all want to feel beautiful and desired. Not "cute". People always refer to small bosoms as "cute". WTF? I'm not 11 years old, I don't want to be "cute". How I hate that bigger is better. That even implants are better. Men go gaga over them. I'd never have implants though. Why does there have to be a "best" size? Why can't all breasts be good just because they're breasts, why can't they all be head turners? Why do I have to be so ugly? Don't lie guys, you all look if a woman with huge cleavage walks by and lose your mind for a second, but if a modest sized woman walks past you wearing cleavage, she doesn't quite make the same impression. Sorry for the rant, I just hate my tiny breasts! I wish I had D cups. I want to feel sexually attractive.
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I hate men and their fascination with huge breasts. I'm quitting. Stop answering because you already made the point clear. I won't make any man lust after me as much as if I had big tits. I've had it with society and their stupid fascinations.
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32 66well I Disagree With the Rule Bigger is better when it comes to breasts .
yea breasts are something that we really love in girls but as you said playboy girls come with big front light to cover their tiny brain So What I'm trying to say is that girls are attractive by nature, in the end of the day we are looking for the girl who have the full package ask any guy Would you u prefer to be in love with a girl that you really like her look and how she thinks or would you like to be with playboy girl who don't know to talk about except one thing and too dummy to go out with if any of them said playboy girl then he is only thinking how nasty she can be with him in bed
it's really make me feel bad when I see wonderful girls is changing the way they look or think to pleas doggy like men
at the end if a man is not ok with how you look don't change your self to pleas him because he will find another girl with bigger more poping breasts ,
would be that the man that you really think deserve you
hop that I helped out her ;)
Not all girls with big breasts are dumb, that's an insult to them. And you yourself admit it, big breasts are attractive. But that "it's love that matters, it's brains that matters" thng makes it feel that "Physically you're still NOT enough... but don't worry, you have other things". Like a pity answer. Go figure. I want to feel that my tits are just as hot as if they were big, not that the others are hot but mine aren't but don't worry because you''re a smart ugly girl.
Well , put it this way if a group of girls depending on their breasts so they can live are they Smart girls actually they insult all girls by what they are doing , about the other thing Have higher self steam , we don't always put breasts test to rate girls we see how they talk how they walk how they think I'm Sorry if I Hurt any body ... Just trying to help out
HEY! Not all girls with large breasts are stupid. I have a 4.0 GPA AND I scored a 76 on my ASVAB test. Jerk.
OMG , I Can't Believe it , My Point was about the Playboy Girls they become the standard for guys and how they Want there girls to become , and sadly the Girls Seems to be ok to Have obsession to look like them , I'm not trying to make a rule big breasts means small brain Don't Get me wrong , so many Smart girls have a natural big Breasts , Girls You Are Sexy by natural don't be obsess of how the other thinks You Should look Like ...
Heeeyyyyy. No. Even though you say not to fight over this and you are talking as if you concluded it and know it all but I am going to talk. Oh btw, I dunno. maybe you are just talking about lust. But in case you are talking about relationships breasts are not all that important. Once someone likes you, he likes you, and he doesn't care for your breast size. You wanna fight over this. Fight. But that's true. My heart is pure because I know I am not lying. I know it from myself and have seen several other guys and its not that big of a deal. But if all you care is turning on strangers sexually then I don't know.
Don't feel so bad about your body. Come on, large breasts are just chunks of fat. Just look up the anatomy of breast online and if all I need for a relationship is fat then I would just go to Wal-Mart and get myself couple of pounds of butter or something. In a relationship what I care for is the girl - whether she is my type or not, whether she loves me or not stuffs like that. Compatibility, chemistry, time, person, mood, location everything affects a relationship. I would date even a double breast amputee if she is really into me and if I think she is really someone I want to be with.
Oh and btw if no one approaches you just go up and talk to guys you like. Appearance-wise I am quite unattractive too. But I don't care. I won't go for anyone who thinks I am unattractive. I was surprised when this girl told me that she actually liked looking at me. Oh god. You got me in nostalgic mode. We are not talking for last two weeks and I am still to get over her.
The same woman with bigger tits would sexier.
Any woman who is kind or smart or funny or skinny is better than a woman with big boobs who isn't.
Guys still like playing with small boobs, but ass is more sexy anyways.
More men will go after big breasted women the same way more women will go after huge/hot/rich guys, because we are all shallow human beings (some more than others).
There is so much you can do to that trumps the sexiness of big boobs it's not even funny. Be flirtacious and have a nice personality and you're better than 80% of the women I meet, and that means you'll be on guys' radar for sex a lot longer than the woman who just walked by.
But you just said they would be hotter! Plus, if you're not sexy t0o begin with, men just won't come to talk to you. They won't want to get to know you. PLUS... women with big breasts can be just as kind. Ah, shit, I'll just give up and try to be happy with who I am, no matter if my boyfriend prefers big tittied women, I'll just let him have sex with me, and that'll be it. I'll know his fantasies include bigger breasts. I'll just move on from sex, I'll let him do me but I won't get attached
If you are looking to be the ultimate fantasy, you are dreaming. We still fantasize about the one we love, but few people will ever be considered perfect for the perfect fantasy. The other things you said are already addressed in my post.
Oh really? then how come the girls in pornos are considered the ultimate fantasies? then don't say that no one can be the ultimate fantasy because clearly men think some women are or the wouldn't watch that kind of porn.
I said few people, you need to read before you speak.
Ok, so these fake women are considered the perfect fantasy then? the ones in pornos? Fine, I'm getting implants. seems to me like the only way to be better than the porno women.
I just said there are tons of ways to be better than big breasts, and I'm done responding to your rediculous nonsense. You can't read and you can't think, I don't understand how you have lived this long and I pity your life as a human being.
"The same woman with bigger tits would sexier." "I said few people, you need to read before you speak." There, you admitted there that big breasts are better. Plus, it irritates me. A woman with large breasts can be uglier or duller. But a woman with small breasts can't she has to be pretty, or have ass, or be really kind, in order to be hot. She has to work more than a big chested girl, that's what you said, so I think I can read. That's what upsets me, that small ones have to be made up for!
Anyway, I forgive for telling me I should be dead. I forgive you for being so insenstive, that you also don't understand how women with small breasts like me struggle with the obsession that men have with large breasts.
woooooo I'm coming into this late but wait asec. I truly to do love small breast honest I do. the big ones sag and have streach marks all over them, and blue vaine running everywhere too. I have been with sexy woman with small breast from a 32 a to a 36 c and one bigger I have no idea how big but they was ferm lol. any thing over 36c is getting to big. Now with that being said YES I have and most likely will again look at large breast and cleavage but I stll look and prefer tiny tities, beside its not what you have IE like a big penis its all how you use it. I personaly love small woman with small everything lol hehehe But then I'm not like most MEN but I am a MAN stand proud and stick them out gf
i don't want a big breast I love mine! they are cute..
but you are right...
O.o You Don't have to have huge boobs to be attractive! Hell I'm small and very self concious.
This is my mesurements NO JOKE!
Around the boobs- 39"
Around the ribs-36"
Around the wast-29"
Around the ass-42"
I have odd mesurments or at least it seems. I'm a B...but I have a big ass! I can still turn heads. Hell I can wear a skirt that goes part my nees and people look! Boobs are nothing but Fat! This I have learned. It took a few guys personally explaining this to me before ever got over the fact that I'm small. Most of its confidence!
Hey no matter what's adverticed its not the boobs! Most guys I've found love a girl with a nice ass just as much. Its not that big of a deal chicka!
I have to agree with you one some of your points. Guys will generally pay more attention to a girl with larger breasts, but this isn't always one of attraction or lust, its just what we do. I love breasts as much as the next guy, but my girlfriend has B cup breasts, and I don't want to look at any other girls breasts anymore. I think most guys notice a girls breasts, but as far as I'm concerned, as much as I love breasts, its got more to do with the overall look of their body.
I know plenty of girls who have B + C cups and look sexy. As much as guys would have you believe, we DO notice more than just a womans breast size before we decide that they are attractive. For the record girls : BIG BREASTS DO NOT INSTANTLY MAKE YOU SEXY. if you want guys to lust after you, buy a sexy dress, act confident, be open with people. try and avoid complaining about people. you don't need big breasts to make a guy come after you. I can say that for a fact.
A lot of guys like smaller breasts because they usually imply a more athletic girl. A lot of guys like athletic girls and small breasts are just part of an athletic figure. I mean lets face it, how often do you see girls who have both defined abs AND big breasts? Never because it can't really happen naturally since breasts are fat and fat gets worked off as you build muscle. So unless they're fake guys have to choose one or the other, and some girls would rather see their girl with defined abs than big breasts.
There's so much more to a girl than her t*ts! Most guys are ass people anyway! I have huge t*ts, I have large D's almost DD's and I don't turn heads either. I have a cute face and a butt too, but just because I'm a size 8 men won't even look my way either. Big boobs hurt your back and can make you self-conscience too because when you take your bra off most are saggy and you don't ever want a guy to find out you have saggy breasts! And besides, I've seen guys lust after girls with hardly anything. My sister has B's, but she has to beat guys off with a stick. Boobs are nice yes but most guys look at the whole package!
well bigger can be better for guys I guess, don't know why, but I think having big breasts can be potentially problematic. its hard to find cute bras in a d cup, at least for me it is. but I'm not complaining, I like my boobs.
I find that most of the time I first have to like the face before I really look at anything.
Big is not always better.
You can hate men all you want,but that's not gonna change the way you are and I feel you just have a bit of bad luck,so give it another try and I'm sure you will find a good man.
Peace!
It's like girls saying they only like guys over 6', when you aren't 6'. I'm just out of luck. 90% of us have something we wish was different about our bodies. Just the way it is.
I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that think you are beautiful, just gotta go find one.
you my friend are extraordinarily wrong... I prefer small t*ts... natural is better... especially in the long run... they don't sag nearly as much... sorry I just joined a couple months ago and just ran across this question... but yeah... B cups are perfect to me... ;)
Besides, silicone is NASTY
Listen, I have D cups, and its not all its cracked up to be. Ever tried going for a jog? Ya, try doing it with every guy you see making jokes with his pals about you. Ever wanna work out? sports bras have to be so tight to work you can barely breathe. Bras are more expensive, and bigger boobs sag.
I won't deny there are DEFINITELY advantages, but there's some drawbacks too. So go easy on us busty chicks. Aside from the ones who paid for it, we just wanna live our lives.
That's just the way we are, sorry. but you can still turn guys on. And the girl that walks by guys with huge boobs might get stared at more, but how often does she get laid by them? Better yet, girls want romance, so how often would she want to get laid by them? As much as you want them, they'd probably be more a burden to you because guys will always be wanting you just for sex. But smaller boobs, even though they're not as attractive and eye catching at first, can still turn a guy on, but won't make him lust after you so much. I hope that helps.
Yeah, because all girls want is romance, to get married and be the wifey type... not! I want to be an angel/whore. I want to be sexy for him. It's stupid, but you know, I'm just giving up, I can't stand that I'm "not as attractive and eye catching"... That I "won't make him lust after you so much"... It hurts, f&#% I'm quitting sex, I'm sorry but this hurts as it's my body and something I can't change and I'm not even gorgeous to begin with so I have nothing going on for me. F%&# BIG TITS!
NO seriously, let me say a couple things: 1. you CAN and I'm sure DO still turn a guy on like crazy! When you're doing stuff with your guy, he won't just be wishing you had big tits! Guys prefer them bigger, but its not necessary! 2. Girls that have big boobs get used more and usually get sick of guys staring just at them 3. Honestly, if you have nice legs and stomach (which you CAN control) you can wear tight shirts and pants and probably get just as many stares as if you had huge boobs.
One more important thing. If most guys could choose to marry a skinny girl with little boobs, or a slightly bigger girl with big boobs, the guy will choose the skinnier girl. Honestly! Because one of a man's biggest fears is for his wife to get fat, and a thicker girl with big boobs is much more likely to get fat. PLUS, your boobs will grow for sure when your pregnant. SO DON'T GIVE UP! THERE'S HOPE!
I feel bad you feel this way. Trust me, good legs and/or stomach is just as nice as boobs!!! Just because we like boobs, doesn't mean that's all that we like and that's all that will turn us on. Trust me, guys are not that hard to please. If you're skinny, especially if you're mini skirts and sexy stuff, guys will want you!!!!
Don't worry. I mean, yeah, it kind of sucks. Yeah, I know I must have other things going on. Obviously, I can't be that hideous! Lol. But anyway, I guess it's just all these years of constant exposure to big breasts and guys' reactions to it. Guess smaller breasts can make me stronger in other areas. Like finding my true self worth. Don't feel bad though. I may have been a bit upset at first, but it's just because of what I said above. I do appreciate your honesty though. so don't feel bad =)
Honest to god I think small breasts are hot, and I am with you on the "cute" thing, my girlfriend did that to me for a while and I got sooo fed up
Dont worry about the sexy thing, if you want to be a slut and get in playboy or w/e, go ahead and get breast implants, in fact, I encourage you too, however, if you want to get a genuine guy, stop freaking out about your body, none of my girlfriends wore makeup, ever, and one had huge tits, the other was flat, one was blond, one was brunet, so, honestly, it really doesn't matter, just find a real nice guy, if he pressures you into something you don't want to do, tell him you dont, then if he keeps doing it drop him, find a guy who wants you, not your breasts
Na bigger is not always better. Some girls look better with medium sized hooters.
Male brains are wired that way because back when the only known method of raising a child was breastfeeding they needed a woman who could provide the most nourishment for the child. Women with large breasts were subconsciously seen as more likely to raise a child at least until they eat solid food. I know that in today's world it doesn't really apply but male brains are still wired that way. Therefore if a female with the same values as you but larger breasts is going to be more attractive. But since everybody is different you shouldn't worry so much. I happen to very attracted to this girl with somewhat small breasts. Personality and intelligence can make you much more attractive than just being well-endowed.
And there is a border line where breasts can be too big. Once they get past a D they start to not be as atractive (at least to me). I would prefer C's or B's but as long as they are in good proportion it is ok.
As a guy I prefer small to medium boobs. Big is a bother if you ask me.
TRUST ME, while big tits are more EYE catching, and noticeable, they get in the way of sex, very sweaty, heavy, and awkward,.dont get me started on what they look like when running lol. I like to LOOK only at big breasts, but nothing sexier than a tiny breasted woman without a bra in a tight shirt.,.mmmm I love small boobs!