Ok, so big breasts are better. Got it.

I've been reading answers here on GirlsAskGuys. Answers to girls asking about breast size. And while men get all "small breasts are so beautiful!" when an insecure small chested girl is asking, the moment big breasts are put into question, then "small breasts are not attractive!". Why do I believe the latter most? Well, obviously just look around and SEE how many big breasts are placed in ads, Playboy, Maxim (or whatever crap) and of course porn, strip clubs, prime time, etc. Got it. Bigger IS better. Stop lying guys. I know a couple of you prefer small breasts. But the vast majority (as a lot of you have said) prefer and give "preferential treatment" to women with large bosoms. And it is noticeable in real life. Yes, I'm bitter, and hurt and frustrated, because sure I may have other appealing qualities, but what gives? the moment a woman with the same great qualities walks by with her huge cleavage then I'm just not going to be as sexy. Plus, it's so stupid, sometimes people will say "well, maybe you don't have great breasts, but you have beautiful hands". yeah, because HANDS are sexual! I'd like to feel sexy, to feel like someone capable of making men lust after me. One fundamental truth about women is that we all want to feel beautiful and desired. Not "cute". People always refer to small bosoms as "cute". WTF? I'm not 11 years old, I don't want to be "cute". How I hate that bigger is better. That even implants are better. Men go gaga over them. I'd never have implants though. Why does there have to be a "best" size? Why can't all breasts be good just because they're breasts, why can't they all be head turners? Why do I have to be so ugly? Don't lie guys, you all look if a woman with huge cleavage walks by and lose your mind for a second, but if a modest sized woman walks past you wearing cleavage, she doesn't quite make the same impression. Sorry for the rant, I just hate my tiny breasts! I wish I had D cups. I want to feel sexually attractive.
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I hate men and their fascination with huge breasts. I'm quitting. Stop answering because you already made the point clear. I won't make any man lust after me as much as if I had big tits. I've had it with society and their stupid fascinations.
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  • I couldn't care less of the boobs!

    It's all about the bum!

  • Natural B's to CC's = Best t*ts ever. Frankly D's are about as attractive as smaller boobs. DD's generally aren't attractive. The only girls who look good with DD's are the one's who's frame matches them, also applies to to smaller breasts.

    None of that really matters though, The thing that makes a girl hot, is if she knows how to work what she has to work with.

    Irrelevant to size: Natural>Silicone

  • you "hate men"? Um, well, maybe your boobs aren't the problem, maybe it's because you're so negative and cynical. Really it's no big deal, I like big boobs, but that doesn't mean ill choose just that over personality.

    But, it has to be proportional, some girls look bad with big boobs and some girls look good with smaller boobs.

    But seriously, cheer up, and don't blame your inablity to feel attractive on men, I'm not saying you're not attractive though.

  • Reminds me of one of Jeff Foxworthy's stand up routines where he talks about when he was in middle school, all the boys wanted a woman with "bodacious tatas", and he said something like "bodacious tatas didn't really appeal to me because the only ladies that had 'bodacious tatas' were the ladies that worked in the school cafeteria."

    Kind of ties in with iamg1n's comment about the face is what matters. I'd say body type too. Small breasts work well with skinny/athletic body type. Look at the twiggy fashion models. They have small breasts & they're models!

    • Twiggy also died from her eating disorder.

    • Twiggys still alive. She was on americas next top model for years.

  • Guys always think big is better! Don't be feel insecure about having smaller breasts, because you also have lots of advantages. Small breasts doesn't make someone ugly, or less worthy. Your beautiful with or without small breasts.

  • NO! YOU DON'T WANT BIG BREASTS!

    I have a small bone structure and huge breasts. I feel so out of proportion.and I can't run anymore. I went to state when I was 13.

    it's embarrassing.

    plus, that's the first thing a guy looks at.

    consider yourself lucky.

    • I know exactly how you feel!!!!!! I thought I was the only one who didn't like the way I look.

  • i like boobs

  • You know what annoys me? People saying that if you have big breasts you look like a slut or a porn star. By the way, I don't have big breasts (I'm a B cup) but I have many friends with large boobs and it doesn't have ANYTHING whatsoever to do with their personality. People who always complain about their bodies annoy the hell out of me too. Ugh. People should just deal with what they have and stop their whinging. GET OVER IT!

  • First of all, it depends on the guys age. Huge breasts are operated. I guess guys look, because the aren't a lot of women with huge breasts, like a circus act. I would admit as a young guy, I thought huge is better, but it isn't. I like all shapes and sizes and it fits the woman. Sometimes guys only look at huge breasts, but the rest of the woman looks like crap! That doesn't mean we love her! If I were in a speedo, god for bid, just to make a point, and I had a huge penis( bulge) you are going to look!. Just because it is not the norm to see a huge bulge like that. I don't like them huge and it is also the shape that count as well as the other parts of the woman. I also hate implants because they look fake to me and if the woman is tiny, she looks funny with huge implants.

    • I like this answer. Very honest. I have to admit though, I have a crazy imagination, and the whole speedo image was pretty..... funny. lol I wish there were a lot more guys out there who think the way you do.

    • Why, thank you! I am glad you enjoyed the speedo story! lol

  • I prefer bigger boobs like ummh 36C or DD

  • I understand what you're saying about bigger breasts catching men's attention quick, but still many guys are attracted to smaller ones too (my boyfriend included). And are you thin? Many guys are attracted to thinner girls too. I know it's just one example but I'm not thin or small breasted and my boyfriend finds me hot anyway. It's about the whole package of the person. I'm going to guess you are beautiful

  • woahhh you have this TOTALLY wrong, look at models do they have big breasts? nooo are they pretty yes.

    brest are an addition a supplement there nice to have but anything to special, a girl with a nice ass and legs will get ten times as many stares as a girl with a nice rack. althought she may not notice because guys are looking at her from behind.

    do you really think guys like fat girls? HELL NO I don't care how big ur tits are for most guys if your fat of course you got big tits...boobs are FAT.

    so it supplements big boobs are nice if you have a nice stomach, a nice face

    same with a girl with a nice ass its important she have a nice face and obviously if she has a nice ass won't be fat.

    now if a girl has EVERYTHING its just a bonus we won't complain but it won't be the deceing factor if your hot or not.

    i think your problem is your insecure, look at all the dancers, models, personal trainers who don't have huge tits there beautiful maybe if you had more confidence and didn't worry about your breasts instead remembered you have other features that would give you great success :)

    a few last things guys always prefer natural over fake and super huge saggy boobs never as hot as smaller firmer perky boobs hope this helps

    • Yeah, it helps a bit. But since I'm like, I don't know, 10, I've known that guys DON'T like models. I mean, models like fashion models, the skinny types that are in women's magazines. But there are other models, ahem, Playboy anyone? They have huge breasts and tiny waists. Those are the models I'm talking about. I'm sorry if I sound too bitter, the truth is since I'm young I've let it affect me a lot, when I should've been stronger and be content with just being loved...

    • ... but I also want to feel hot, hotter than all those models, but it's hard you know. I know, I know, I have to be more confident. as I said, it's a bit hard, but I'll work on it.

    • Im just saying most guys are into ass over boobs you should promote your ass instead of worrying about your boobs, hopefully you have a nice butt

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  • Meh. Big or small, as long as there's something there I couldn't care less.

  • no not necessarily if they are too big then its just ughhhh

    but they have to be the right size like B or C or D pushing it and e thing bigger is wayyyyyyy to big

    because you should be able to hold it and suck and kiss etc

    but when there to big you ruin the beauty of the breast and you don't hate men you just hate how SOME men THINK

  • C's are the best size and ideal to me IMO. Breasts can be too big and then they are not attractive, as is a flat chest. Preferably in the B-D range, and I do not like implants

  • For me it’s more about your overall package than it is your boob size. Sure large boobs are fun and nice to look at. But if you just have a sexy way about you and are proportionate, small boobs can be super sexy.

  • i like smaller boobs and every one I know does too. I prefer booty. I would rather the girl I was with have nice feet and hands then large breast

  • small is bad HUGE is good average is best

  • I love boobs..

  • bigger is better because to me it makes a woman look more like woman and that's my preference but that is not the most important who a person is and that is what matters. I have many friends that are small and i don't hold it against them i just choose not to date them because there are things i wanna do when i get married and those things are going to be more pleasurable in my opinion. and that's why for dating purposes i search for large C to DD range.

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