You may have lucked out on him only having one shot at it and it was a brief relationship. I think the only way you will know for sure is to ask him. I am a Christian as well but I did not save that for marriage. (yes a sin, like many others you and I have comitted.)
I don't know of any other way other than his feedback. Intact hymen is out... :D
Good luck.
I have always hoped the people who didn't test drive the car before buying it aren't too bummed out that the gear shifter has a lot of slop in it and it doesn't handle for anything. Hope that is not the case. At least neither of you will have anything to compare it to.0 0 0 0It's kinda impossible although by your description he doesn't seem like the type who can easily gets sex. Speaking from a Christian point of view, I know how sacred it is to save your virginity before marriage, however if you really love this guy I think it shouldn't matter at all. So what if he made a mistake and had sex before? it doesn't make him any less worthy as a person. Didn't Jesus saved an adulterer from being stoned to death? it shows that what's important is not what you did before but how you atone and repent for your mistakes.
0 0 0 0Thanks for your answer, but in my question, I stated that it is not necessary, however is preferred. I am understanding of past mistakes, I've made mistakes too. However it be nice if he is, and there is nothing wrong with me hoping for that. So I was hoping that people would specifically answer what I asked, which is are there any signs that a guy may be a virgin still, such as signs in social settings, how they relate to girls etc
Sorry I can't help to defend that guy (lol) since I don't want you to suspect him should he tells to you he's still a virgin. As I said it's kinda impossible to tell, by default if he's socially awkward then it's likely that he's still a virgin. You'll probably only find out for sure when you have sex with him for the first time. Oh but if he feels awkward to initiate skinship (or when you do it to him) then most likely he's still a virgin.
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Well, the fact that he was overweight in high school, is socially awkward, and has only been in one relationship that only lasted 4 months might indicate that he's a virgin. But you can't REALLY tell for sure. He might've had sex with his ex girlfriend. I'm sort of betting that he did. Just because I think if he is a virgin, it has little to do with his desire to save himself for marriage. It probably has a lot more to do with his awkward social skills.
0 0 0 0I would just ask him. I asked my boyfriend straight up before we even were officially dating. It was awkward but worth finding out new are both waiting as well
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0 5They're not really any signs to see if he is or not. But just because someone says they're Christian does not mean they are virgins, unless they're Mormon, then yes probably. If his younger siblings are having sex it's pretty safe to assume he has had sex before as well. Sorry but it's really hard to find someone that age that hasn't had sex yet.
0 0 0 0Nothing specific, it's all stuff that you'd expect... lack of sexual knowledge and sexual confidence, and sometimes talking too much about sex also suggest that they're a virgin. But if he has only been in one relationship and it was only four months, there's a chance he may still be a virgin... If you date him and he doesn't seem very forward about initiating sex then he probably is a virgin.
2 0 0 0I would say that shy guys are more likely to be virgins, as well as those who profess themselves openly deeply religious. I think another tell tale sign is their pace of things. If they rush into talking to you, asking you out, kissing you, etc.. then they probably aren't. You are also (forgive me) at the age where most guys will have had sex even if they are religious because they have been married or strayed from the path. Good luck to you.
0 0 0 0thankyou for your answer!
You're welcome. You'll find your virgin soon!
haha thanks...hopefully!
If he is a virgin he ll be so romantic and sexer... if not a virgin his romantic sense towards you ll be a little later
0 0 0 0so you are a virgin at age 26?
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inspiring, since I just turned 25 and I'm a virgin
Cool :)
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