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So my new boyfriend apparently thinks giving oral is gross.
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is gross but receiving it himself..well he wants that all the time...wth? what do I do? I think that is so hypocritical and stupid and he also doesn't like kissing me after I give him oral..
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13 15ugh omg my guy is the saaame way! I mean exactly. He thinks giving oral is simply gross but when it comes to receiving it o that's all he wants! AND like you said he will NOT kiss me after I give him head. I mean come on how selfish is that?!
Now don't get me wrong me and my guy really care for each other and he's a great guy and I'm sure your the same way with your man. To me its just nice to vent about this. lol
But girl I so know how you feel!
Ya that was one of the things that started to grate on me about how he really felt about me, after awhile that behavior just gets really annoying! I hope you can get him to change his habits even by a little!
Why don't you try to gradually convince him? My boyfriend never had a problem with kissing me on the lips after I gave him head, but any tongue was a big no. Then he decided he would kiss me if I took a drink before, then eventually just got over it completely.
thats not right. and ya need to talk to him about it... tell him if he lick it then you don't suck it... he's getting what he wants why not get what you want... the kissing thing is understandable I don't kiss my man and he don't kiss me after he gives it to me...
That is hypocritical and stupid. If he won't lick the cat then he shouldn't expect to get brain all the time. If a guy wouldn't go down on me I would not be returning the favor. He seems selfish, he doesn't deserve head.