The female orgasm: How wet does your bed get after sex?

When I had sex with my ex-boyfriend, the bed would get pretty wet. I used to think that I've never had an orgasm, because I never really had that WOW experience, you know? But then the wet bed got me thinking that I must have ejaculated, and therefore had an orgasm. The reason why I'm thinking about all of this, is because I masturbated last night for the first time in a long time and it felt great, but at one point, the climax I suppose, clear liquid spurted out. Was this female ejaculate, and is this common? Is there anybody out there who could explain the female orgasm to me?
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  • I have ejaculated without having an orgasm before so maybe before you weren't really having an orgasm just getting close and ejaculating. I have also had orgasms where I DO get wetter but not drastically. I get very, very wet from what my ex and my current boyfriend tell me. When I have my less intense orgasms there is no mistaking them. You know when you have one.

    It is female ejaculation for sure and it doesn't always have to come squirting out like you see in p*rn. As for the orgasm there is a clear distinction between being really, really aroused and the actual orgasm. I don't know how to explain it other than you just know you had one. It used to frustrate me that people would explain it that way before I had my first one but now I understand.

  • ive squirted once in my life while masturbating. I had a big puddle in my chair after I was done. after I got the depo provera shot it messed up my hormones and I can't do that ever again or even achieve the same wetness I had. I do sometimes gush. whenever I orgasm I can feel fluid push out with every contraction. unfortunatly with sex it doesn't feel good for me nor do I get off :(

    • I've always wondered about squirting and thought that it was fake but you actually squirted and is it like in the videos. I'm not a perv by the way LOL. Just always thought it was interesting that a girl could do that. You should probably find another method of birth control like an IUD if its affecting your hormones that badly.

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  • The "ejaculation" is natural lubrication, not to be confused with an orgasm. Your orgasm would be a series of muscle contractions that feel great and then it all relaxes, probably one of the best feelings in the world.

  • i make typhoons =)

  • I squirt andd when I have sex or masturbate I wet my sheets. but I get really really wet where like I drip and stuff when I cum

  • It's probably just your natural lube getting it wet. You would know if you had an orgasm. You probably just have an above average lube