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What do you guys think about 34A boobs on a girl? BE HONEST.

there are quite a lot of questions on here pertaining to guys and how they truly feel about boob size. however, I think it's really funny because some of you guys get on here and say something like "oh I actually prefer small boobs, my girlfriend has a high B/small C." no. when I say, "small boobs," I'm talking about actual small boobs. I hate it but I barely have a 34A. I get told that it looks ok on me because its proportionate, I'm tallish and skinny, (5'6'' and 110 pounds) so people say it doesn't look bad. guys tell me bigger boobs would look good on me but that I'm still "pretty," but they might just be trying to be nice since they're my friends. my boyfriend even told me that in the beginning of our relationship he wasn't attracted to me in a sexual manner. he told me that he always thought of me as "lovely," meaning that I was "the kind of girl you marry," not "sexy," the kind of girl you want to f*ck and not talk to again. (his words.) he now insists that that has changed, but it makes me insecure, and makes me feel very sexually undesirable. so my question is, guys, if a girl had very small boobs, (34A,) would you find her appealing all at? even if she was proportionate? or would you not really find her attractive?
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  • Well I'm a bit of an expert as my first girlfriend was a size 34A, and I was absolutely captivated by her breasts. They certainly weren't what I would call small, definitely a handful, and had the added benefit that there was no cleft underneath when she took her bra off, and bounced together in a very pleasing way. Her gorgeous nipples were a beautiful milk chocolate brown colour, and when I sucked them she always gasped and moaned and went into almost an ecstatic trance. To cap it all, when it came to sex we just had what you might call 'chemistry'.

    She was a little bit taller than you at about 5'8", so if anything they might be considered less proportionate, but I still frequently fantasize about them.

    Her roommate at college was a size 34C, and I have to say I would not have wanted them to swap. Another friend had no breasts at all to speak of, so it was probably a case of the middle ground being the best.

    Of course when you talk about attraction the single most important thing is personality, and she had plenty of that too.

  • Some of the hottest girls I've ever seen have small boobs. It all depends on your overall body shape and the shape of your breasts. Don't think for a second that you're not drop dead gorgeous just because you have A cups. You deserve someone who is VERY attracted to you, not just someone who says he's attracted to you now that he's used to getting sex from you. Sure he may have actually fallen in love with you, it happens, but it's not as nice as being with someone who knows on first sight that he absoutely has to be with you.

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  • want to swap? I'm a 32 E. I'm not proportionate at all. (I think that's the american size)

    from my experience males don't really care about breast size. They don't think it defines the girl, or its not the first thing they notice. I'd love smaller breasts, and I get so angry when I see girls harping on about wishing theirs were bigger. Not that we aren't allowed to have our insecurities, but do you really be the one people want to have sex with but not love?

    Breasts don't define how attractive you are.

    after experiencing life with enormous sacks of fat on my chest, I would gladly trade it for an A cup.

    The truth is, I don't think anyone really cares, you know. People aren't likely to sit and laugh at you for not having big breasts, (yet I get called a slut for having them?) and you can be sexy in your own way. think about run way models for instance I guess, for the most part they small breasts, yet they're supposeably the most attractive women in the world.

    • Dude, this poor girl's boyfriend has her genuinely questioning her own self worth and you don't think it's super shitty to compare your huge tits to her lack of self-esteem? Boobs may not determine overall beauty, but you have no idea what it feels like to compare yourself to everyone else and constantly feel like you'll just never be enough because deep down you know that most guys want girls like you whether they will admit it or not

  • Wow, what a horrible thing for your boyfriend to say. Is he implying that he likes to f* girls with smaller boobs and not talk to them again? That doesn't make sense :S, esp when he said u'r 'the kind of girl' that he could marry. would that mean he would f* someone, marry them, and not talk to them again? :S. Maybe ur boyfriend has problems with words or logic, but anyway, I also feel insecure about my boobs. And guys aren't going to say it straight like, 'wow your boobs are really small!' I think its just going to end up being about preferences, what guys like in an entire body. I think being porportionate helps too, I think if you're hot all over, it kinda makes up for a lot of things that guys want ( I mean maybe its kinda biological or cultural, the obsession over breasts.) so I think guys have a good judgement for 'overall' looks too, not just boobs.

    • He meant there's lovely girls vs sexy girls. Lovely ones are girls you want to marry and sexy ones are girls you want to fuck and never talk to again.

    • @ValarMorghulisTR Agreed. Your "boyfriend" is an idiot. My last girlfriend had the same size as you and I loved them, haha. I consider myself a boob guy more than a butt guy. So I'm not going to lie and say that I don't like big boobs, because I do, but at some point boobs can be TOO big. They start to look weird whereas small boobs, at least the ones that I've seen, never do. At the end of the day, love yourself because that is what makes a girl sexy over everything else.

  • I the same think happened to me, I'm also a 34A and my boyfriend once told me that at the beginning of our relationship he 'wished I had larger breasts"' he also insists he has changed and is sorry for his superficial thoughts. However this did not stop me from feeling insecure for years, until I finally was tired of feeling sorry. I know that I have way more important things to offer than my body. I hope you can also make peace with yourself one day when you realize that we (society) overemphasize the female body because of the media. There is NOTHNG wrong with you, I'm sure you are a beautiful girl, inside and out. I also advise that you trust your significant other when they he says that they have changed the way they think, it'll make your relationship better.

  • I'm straight but I find b-c cups on girls to be more appealing. I myself have a b cup. I know it made you feel insecure but ask yourself, would you rather be the sexy girl he'd marry or the sexy girl he fucks but doesn't care for at all. He cares about you, or he wouldn't have been with you in the first place. He doesn't have to find you physically sexually attractive to want to be with you sexually. If that makes sense. My boyfriend isn't neccessarily sexy, but when we get sexual his actions and just being with him in that way makes me really attracted to him. He's hot just not in a physical way. Just up your game in bed.

    • your mean she doesn't have to make up for anything !

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  • Well, I'm smaller-chested than you AND I weigh like 25 lbs more than you.

    The biggest reason I don't like it is because nothing fits me:(

  • Personally I like the smaller breast but I also like big hips. Truth is it's the person you are on the inside that makes it. I will say this I hate FAKE breast and especially on a skinny girl where they are so obvious that they just look like a cartoon.

    Please find yourself a guy who loves you for your CHARACTER and PERSONALITY, and don't worry about the perverts that want to change your body. Believe me it's nice to have a small chested girlfriend; if she isn't worried about her size. Because you never have to listen to them bitch about how their boobs hurt or how you have to be careful because they are always in the way. Also small breasted women go wild when they figure out you really do like the smaller ones, they feel special and cared for which is all any of them want in the first place!

    Enjoy the fact that you don't have the pain, and find yourself a real man that loves you for you !

  • I find them good enough... myself like Ds and DDs...

  • First things first... I have rather large hands, and my girlfriend is about the same maybe a tad taller and around 120, but they are perky and sensitive... and its great!

    Second off... I don't think you need to compare yourself to anyone else... You are perfect just the way you were made. There is a plan for everyone and going to online sites to verify self worth is not good. You are going to receive negative judgements from people you don't even know, along with pity posts or heartfelt posts. Be confident with you and your body, and know someone loves you for you. Brest size isn't what a good guy looks for... Its the eyes ;) ... Not to sound corny or anything but be true to you.

  • I like the small boobs...i hate big ones that are all over the place. just not for me...and when it is proportionate then its even better. so yes it would be very attractive for me.

  • Im the exact same size! It annoys me sometimes because all my friends are Bs and Cs but you just have to not think about it! Afterall they're there to breast feed babies not for guys enjoyment! :P X

  • I don't vare for looks

    What she has is fine

    but you can bet if ime dating somonethey won't be the type to get a boob job

  • I am a 34A also and for a long time was very insecure about it..then I had kids and breastfed..(I was told they would be bigger..false)my boyfriend is anass man but still doesn't mind the size of my breasts...depends on the guy.but I have found being happy with myself and confidence has brought me to not worrying so much what people think...the way you feel about yourself is what matters.I think it's sexy!

  • Wow you weigh half as much as me... anyway I am not sure how small a 34A would be. I think I would find a girl sexually attractive with then given stats as you have provided. I think another thing for me would be that we would have to have a connection which would help out in that area quite a bit. One of the girls I used to like basically had very tiny boobs however I found her outrageously attractive and sexy. I'd say it would be more on the person as a whole for me. (no ditsy girls) I do like to be able to hold conversations with other humans.

  • Trust me they are perfect, my girlfriend is 5'2" and is 34A, and she is beautiful.

  • depends on the girl

    some girls can pull it off

  • Boobs are one of the last things I notice about a girl. I look at things like hair, eyes, smile, height and overall body, but boob size isn't important to me. I'm not sure exactly what a 34A looks like, but if it looks like you have any sort of boob under your clothes, that's good enough for me. I wouldn't want a completely flat chest like a guy.

    I have had friends who are proud of the fact they LOVE big breasts, and they notice and point out how large a girls boobs are, yet their own girlfriend is way small and they're okay with that.

  • Heeey! I'm barely 34A too! Only I've got a gut. :[ You think the fat could find other places -coughboobscough- to settle on my body.

  • Have you had sex yet? it's a good place to start

  • I can deal with it I guess. As long as ur bod is hot and you don't look like a little boy I;d be fine with it. But I do prefer tto have a breast I can grab, rather than only be able to pinch!

  • 5ft 6", skinny, 34A cup boobs...you have the same body as my gf and she looks incredible. I can't think for a moment you don't look good and those boobs of urs anything other than sexy.

  • If a girl had very small boobs, (34A,) would you find her appealing all at? even if she was proportionate? or would you not really find her attractive?

    Absolutely yes, I would find her sexually inspiring and desirable, but not if she had a unkind character and was stupid. That would make her undesirable, even if her breasts were "perfect" whatever perfection may be in my feeling that particular year or day.

  • Hey I am a 32 A. Ahhhh another member of the A cup club! Do not change yourself. Personally I like having smaller boobs. Well sometimes it makes me feel bad, but then I think about how many beautiful women there are out there that also have small boobs. I mean just look at a woman like Kiera Knightly, she has small boobs yet she is gorgeous. Don't feel bad. After all what are boobs? They are just weird pieces of flesh on your chest. They are not who you are.

  • There is this girl that I really like, and she is the most amazing and beautiful girl I've ever met, and one day the tag on her bra was sticking out and it said 34A, and I think that she is just absolutely gorgeous. I guess what I'm saying is yes, i would find her atractive.

  • all I can say is that id be fine with it, I've only seen on pair of 34a and yeah they were small but they were firm so I think there's no problem at all with what you have

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