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What does it mean if my boyfriend wants me to use a strap-on?
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So my boyfriend told me he would like for me to use a strap-on. He enjoys anal play. I'm not sure what this means, if anything at all. Are there other straight men who have this fantasy? I think I am the only girlfriend he has ever asked to do this. Is it a submissive thing? I know he does like when I am in control of him sometimes.Which makes me wonder if I should get a dominatrix outfit for the first time using it on him. The request took me off guard but I will do just about anything and everything to keep my man satisfied in the bedroom. I would also like to note that my boyfriend was a victim when he was young and his like for this kind of play may stem from that.
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 16He has an inferiority complex or an oedipus complex. Take your pick.
are you really that clueless or just trying to be mean?
Take your pick know-it-all
Yeah, straight guys can like it. You are a girl with a strap on and not a guy, so it's not gay. lol
It being a submissive thing plays a part in it, but it's also that apparently prostate stimulation while orgasming feels good. Some can orgasm from that alone. He asked because of that and the fact that he trusts you enough for it since you said that you are the only girlfriend that he asked. However, if you are uncomfortable about doing it, you don't have to.
Well, I think a bi guy is more likely to enjoy anal play, but many straight men enjoy it too. I'm straight and a dildo would be too far for me. But I do love rubbing the outside of my anus with my fingers while masturbating my penis: it feel so good.
If he is submissive, I'm sure he'd love you to wear a dominatrix outfit.
I suppose his past could be a reason. But it might not be.
You sound like a really thoughtful, caring girlfriend :)
Thanks!