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What will happen if I take a shower with him?
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Have you ever taken a shower with someone? If so what happened? My boyfriend wants to take a shower with me but I'm a virgin and I'm not ready for sex. If I get in with him will he think I want to have sex or can I just tell him no and still take a shower with him? Or would it be better just not to take one with him?
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 13if he really loves you and respects you, then he would understand that you're not ready for sex. I'm a virgin my boyfriend knows that and respects that. We already took a shower together and we didn't have sex. It brought us even closer. He truly loves me and doesn't push me to do anything that I don't want to. So yeah, it is possible to take a shower with the person without having sex. Personal experience.
If you are truly a virgin and wish to remain so until marriage (or at least until the "right" guy shows up) I would advise against taking a shower with your boyfriend. The pressure of your hormones will be hard to resist if you do. He might not be able to resist the pressure of his hormones either, especially if he, too, is a virgin or has limited experience with ladies. You might get away with scrubbing his back in the shower if he asks (you still being dressed that is) but I wouldn't tempt fate by doing any more or getting naked.
just take one with him 1 it would be a fun way to have sex for the first time and 2 he will love you so much more
if my girlfriend took a shower with me, unless she specifically says otherwise, Id think she wanted something more than kissing. Id think that she wanted fondling at the least, and sex at the most.
it would probably lead to sex.
perhaps the wisest course of action should be to avoid it (look, don't worry about disappointing him he'll get over it in a few seconds...), or make it extremely explicit that you don't want to have sex.