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Why do guys want anal sex?
Anonymous
My boy friend is literally begging me for anal, I personal have never tried it and I really don't want to.. But he told me that he's pretty much going to do "surprise butt sex" and I really really really do not want to have anal. I don't know what to do, he really wants to try it.. And I have absolutely no desire to try it. Why do guys want it so bad? And girls, have you ever tried it? And if you did, did it hurt?. Did you enjoy it?
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So I talked to him about it today and used some of the advice you guys gave, well this is how it went.. Him-"wanna be f***ed in the ass?<3" me-"-_- no..." Him-"lol I'm still gonna do it" Me"no..you won't.." Him-"lol I will" Me-"that's like rape Hahahahaha" Him-"lmao no it's not -.-" Me-"hahaha if I don't agree to it it is:p" Him-"but you'll be loving it too" Me-"how do you know that..?" Him-"lol cause we kinky;)" Me-"lmao whatever.."
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He tried it -_- .. I stopped him though! I Literaly got up off the bed and walked out of the room because right before we had sex I told him " NO anal"... So yeah he was pissed.. Like I told him during an argument "I'm not having sex again if you do that.." he won't talk to me -_- lol whatever he's a d***..
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 19It's warmer, it's tighter, and we like it when you cry.
Are you joking about the crying part? Because honestly if you're not..(-_-t)
It's a joke. Another variation on this punchline - "It's more degrading to women"
Because it's a tighter hole lol they just care about the pleasure they will get and don't even think that it will be painful for you. It's selfish I think. If you don't want to, don't do it.. It's your body after all. I would never try it either, I think it's dirty and not good for your body (people get problems with their anus if they do it... Like weakness and hemorrhoids).
Yeah I don't think I will ever try it! But my boyfriend really wants to and I don't know if he's joking about surprising me during sex.. Because if he does I don't know what to do.. I've told him No so many times now but he still says that he'll find a way to get it out of me
if he does it without you saying its OK it is rape!
Something like this is no joke. No means no. if he does it once he'll do it again. Dump the loser
I would dump him if I were you. Sounds selfish, and cares more about his sexual desires then your feelings... what a loser!
ughhh I hate your logic..
why?