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Why do women not like virgins?
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If you're a woman past your late teens or early twenties and are going to deny you won't take a virgin guy serious I don't want your damn sympathy because I've either already had it or been denied it lol. What I want to know is why women think staying pure (having little experience) is so great for themselves but any guy without experience is a huge turnoff?
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What Girls & Guys Said
36 10I don't think there is anything wrong with a guy being a virgin at all or a girl. to each there own. I think if a girl thinks it's a turn off then she probably isn't worth your time.
I'm the complete opposite of that. I personally don't mind if a guy is a virgin or has very little experience. My current boyfriend hasn't had a lot of experience and I'm perfectly okay with it. I actually prefer a guy who hasn't had a lot of experience or who is a virgin. I wouldn't want to be with someone who's been with a lot of people or a high number of women. It's not a turn on for me it's sleazy. I don't mind a virgin or someone who has little experience.
Because some girls like the guy to be dom in the bedroom
It`s not exactly turn-off, for girls it`s just like is it gonna feel good for them if they have sex with a guy who`s a virgin tis all
Okay, I was really confused when I saw this answer lol
LOL we have the same pic...freakayyyyyyyyyyyyy
lol I thought a single girl had answered twice!...!
People have this odd belief that the more experience someone has, the better they are in bed. I have this odd belief that the more experience a person has, the more likely they are to have STDs, so I'd prefer a virgin, as I am one myself :D
It's interesting, because the first girl I was (in my early 20s) with ended up being with me for two years. It was obvious she was not impressed the first few times (she as much as said so), but within a short period of time, I had become pretty good according to her. She seemed to debunk the idea that you need to screw lots of girls to be good at sex.
I hope to marry a virgin someday. but I will still truly love a man and forgive him even if he is not.
The ones that feel that way are hypocrites.
I am a 32 year old virgin and the fact of the matter is most women want an experienced guy. They are turned off by guys like myself who are inexperienced. They immediately put inexperienced guys into the friends zone.
What you have to realize is what women say and what they do are often completely different things. I have heard women say that they don't consider it a big deal, blah, blah, blah, but you have to observe the guys they actually end up having relationships with. The guys they end up sleeping with. Typically, not 1 for 1 but usually they are the guys who are experienced.
i prefer a virgin. they're more genuine and sweet.
hmm, its interesting that if I was a guy I wouldn't have sex with a slut/ "experienced" girl, but as a girl I'm OK with having an experienced/ man slut. but maybe its based on personality too because the girl I'm talking about has a slut personality and the guy is nice to me. Also subconscious influnces for sex; women seek protection, men seek to reproduce, its natural for them to have as much sex as possible, while women are looking for a protector, which is usually one mate. Ofcourse, I don't actaully think all this but this is the subconscious insticts that affects how we perceive the opposite sex on sexual issues, such as in your question.
hey man, my girl had slept with 2 guys she was in serious relationships with before she slept with me and I made her orgasm at about the third time I had sex with her, it was my third time ever having sex, and she had never had an orgasm during sex before. later I made her orgasm 2 times in a row and that's was like my 5th time.
experience doesn't mater much, its all in the type of guy.
i'm an average size btw.
I just would never want a virgin guy because he doesn't know what he is doing and that's weird
I wouldn't want to be with a stupid woman like you that would be weird.
Haha k thanks
I don't know if YOU'RE a virgin, but I'm sure when you were (or if you still are) a guy would think the exact same about you. Don't be ignorant.
I am a virgin and there is a difference btwn virgin girls (who are basically a conquest for guys) and virgin guys who are just inexperienced to me.. I didn't say I speak for all girls but for me PERSONALLY I STILL wouldn't want to hook up with a virgin guy because he doesn't know what he's doing and that's weird. IF YOU LIKE VIRGIN GUYS... good for you I don't
What the hell? We all had to be virgins sometime...did we not? How about a little tolerance & consideration? LOL Maybe...we don't all think the same way but it's not illegal?
aww but I love virgins there sweet
Personally I would LOVE a Virgin for a nightt!
But usualy virgin guys are very shy, timid, lack confidence or there is usually some other reason that they are still a virgin, and that's usually what the turn off is, not that fact that your "Pure".
No we're not. I'm a virgin and I have experience. I think I'm very confident because of two things about myself that no one can take away from me.
I came on this website to ask a similar question, as I am a 20 year old virgin (female). I wouldn't care about a guy being a virgin if I really liked him. It doesn't matter. However, it seems like the rest of the world sees virginity as such a bad thing, so I know how you feel.
I want a guy that knows what he's doing because I'd have no clue what to do.
because we totally love'em ^_^
No sir. Guys who wait are special. Any girl worth waiting for is so much better than someone with "experience"...
I don't think staying 'pure' is great for anyone, but I prefer virgins in many ways, I can show them what to do.
Every guy I've slept with has been a virgin (by chance rather than choice though)...
im a virgin and wouldve loved my fiancee to be a virgin too so it would be extra special for him the night we have sex. I think only girls that are virgins and girls who have weird superiority fetishes like virgin guys, but everyone who isn't one has to lose it somehow so there's gotta be a few who want pur guys ;D
I hate how women think just because a guys a virgin, he won't know the errogenous zones or how to push their buttons
He won't...he may know the names and areas,but being good at it?He won't.It takes experience
honey, my first time I made my girl come twice, because I knew what to do and what to rub, sure most guys wouldnt... but not everyones the same I read up a lot and watched lots of videos on female anatomy and sweet spots, and after a little time finding her spots.. it didn't take much ..
Honey, I don't even know how many times I've lied about cumming in order to not burst the guys bubble. It's VERY easy for a girl to fake an orgasm. Although, you may very well have gotten her there...
No, I'm %100 sure she came
If you are experienced,why are you complaining about girls having this perception?mhmm Reading videos and being engaged in it is different
It pisses me off because my girl was one of these girls who thought like this, until I blew her mind :)
Well, had it ever occured to the girl that maybe she could, oh, I don't know...SHOW HIM what she likes? It's really irritating how women always expect guys to read their minds while they sit back and wait to have their whims granted. For a gender that thinks so highly of "communication", they sure spend very little time actually DOING IT when it counts!
I completely agree, GoldGriffin80. It must be a turn-off for women when they have to explain things, sexually. But seriously, a girl who's smart would live with that turn-off the first time and then she'd get rewarded when the guy she's with does what pleases her in a genuine and special way. The laziness of people is so frustrating!