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Why is it that black/Latino guys are more into curvy, chubby, and fat girls?
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I have a mixed up background but I just look tan. Just so that's out of the way. Anyway I think we have all noticed this. White guys seem to favor much thinner girls with more pencil-y shapes than black guys and Latino guys of different races. My question is why do you think that is? I'm not saying there are no good looking, non-overweight white guys who like heavy or curvy chicks, but I notice that the amount of white guys who don't simply tolerate that in a girl they like but prefer it doesn't compare at all to Latino or black guys. I guess we can say Asians guys here with white guys as well. I am naturally curvy already but I have extra weight landing me somewhere on the higher side of chubby almost fat. lol Most white guys don't like that I don't think but I have been hit on by some good looking ones. I think with them though its my personality, whereas a black guy may look at me and actually want to f*** me. It's a different feeling basically. Of course I'm not saying all of them are like this, but I have noticed cultural differences in this way. a lot of white guys even seem to be put off by just curvier girls who aren't even fat. It's very interesting, at least I think so anyway. It has affected me a little bit. Not too much but I see some of my friends struggling with this who are in the same boat as me or much worse off. I think I'm fine though, beautiful actually, and I have way more confidence than half of my lovely stick thin friends. I also feel more comfortable with my body than they do. It's not just that I find the idea of being tiny with no hips, small boobs, or no butt unattractive (I don't think id look that way anyway if I did lose weight). In my mind I think I associate losing weight with misery. I see all these thin girls who are absolutely insecure and eating lettuce all day and counting calories, who barely weigh anything with wet clothes on but will still turn sideways in the mirror asking "do I look fat?" I just laugh usually and I'm just like are you kidding? that's how I'm supposed to look and behave? ill pass... Having said that I am in a long term relationship. My current boyfriend is white and he's very attractive to a lot of girls I know, a little older than I am, and intelligent - he's a medical intern. My mom is always like "don't screw this one up." lol OK I'm done ranting. tell me your thoughts :)
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 16Yeah I have to agree with you on this I've been trying to find a white guy (I just have such huge fetish for them lol) that would appreciate my curves but its kind of hard usually I just always end up getting hit on by latinos/black guys. Which is fine they're great too but I don't know I think maybe white guys feel intimidated and I guess latinos/black guys are just more comfortable with curves. =/
I don't know where you've been looking, but my wife is a size 14, and I LOVE her butt. If you are as thick and curvy as you say you are, you'd definitely hear me say something like "looking good from behind, momma", if I passed you on the street. I am never intimidated by a woman's natural, sexy curves.
It surely can't be that hard, I know plenty of white guys that love thicker women, personally I think its hot and love a girl with a curvier physique.
It IS that hard sometimes. it def is. I've me very few white guys who liked a bigger girl, and the ones I have met...are embarrassed/scared to go out in public with them or are afraid their so called "friends" will give them sh*t about it. now I'm all for being myself, but you really don't know how hard it is until you have been in the situation. maybe its just the area I live in, idk. but everyone has their preferences
If you're looking for easy white dudes go out west where it's cold. There's plenty.
nah, even white guys don't like skinny girls that much anymore, the problem with some people is that they never notice some stuff is out of fashion, they just keep doing it! today its all about looking and feeling healthy and fit.