Saying people should date those they are not attracted to or 'give them a chance' doesn't work.
Are you bisexual? If not, it would be like me saying 'why don't you give some lesbians a chance, you could be missing out on a great partner'.
It just doesn't work like that. You - have- to be sexually attracted to someone to want to be in a monogamous relationship with them. Otherwise, you're friends, if you get along that great.
I don't really classify women as 'skinny/average/curvy/bbw'.
I prefer women who are slim, at least through the waist. I'm happy with a range of thigh/butt sizes.
National averages don't reflect regional ones. I live in the suburbs, work in a downtown core. In the suburbs, most adults are fat, where I work, most are not.2 0 0 0Skinny: link
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Men's definition of Curvy: link
Women's definition of Curvy: link
bbw: link
My favorite body time is small and curvy.
And to answer your latter question:
If a girl is over my weight limit, I'm not interested.
If a girl is within my physical parameters, but a bitch, I'm not interested.
There are many things that can disqualify a girl for me, But if romantic relations were not based upon physical attraction, then how we looked wouldn't matter at all.
I'm not out looking for platonic friendships, so yes, physical attraction is first and foremost.
And THEN I'll see about looking into her persona.1 0 0 0I think your observation between a man's and women's definition of curvy is correct. I also find that women who are overweight call themselves thick. There seems to be some confusion there as well.
noo way that's averagee I thought I was average but not and not skinny tyou should include some picture between skinny and average! :)
the men's definition of curvy won't let me see the pic. I guess you are right though. Women and men have their own definitions and the pictures helped! This basically answered my question :)
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i think men generally prefer an hour glass figure!they prefer a Female figures are typically narrower at the waist than at the bust and hips.only 8% of females are hourglass figured!
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0 5Kheserthorpe is right: we date people that we are physically attracted to. Men are very visual. That's why lingerie and p*rn have been around forever. Some of us have history that restricts our "attractive range" filter. I was married to fat for 27 years. I hated that and will never go back to it. I like curvy women so it's not like skinny is the rage. I'm more of a booty guy than a breast man so that's where it starts.
1 0 0 0For the United States that may be true, but the United States is a country of obese people. How does a size 14 compare to that of Europe?
0 0 0 0sorry I forgot that this site isn't just in the U.S. but I mean I'm talking about America right now not anywhere else.
To me skinny seems to be like slender where their obviously isn't much meat on your body but hopefully just enough so that I won't have really see your bones poking out. Average is pretty much what you assume, not really fat nor skinny just in the middle with some sort of features a guy may like. Curvy is pretty the whole bombshell package I suppose, there's no way you can go wrong with that. BBW to me is probablly over 20% body fat or more for their own weight. Being that I'm fit, yes weight is a big factor for me including most men. But I will say is that if your working on it then I'm sure we can try & work something out.
1 0 0 0Slender, small (A or B) breasted and athletic. Misses size 8
0 0 0 0Men are wired to be attracted to physically. And girls are wired to be emotional being.
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