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Would you dump a girl for not giving oral sex?
MartinIsAMartian Xper 2
I've never been with a chick who won't give oral,but I'm sure those girls exist somewhere.I would dump a chick would won't give oral,to me,it's just a necessity of a good sex life. But,I don't give oral sex.It isn't something I do,it isn't appealing or fun to me,the taste and odor aren't all that(even if the chick showers) it just isn't something I'm into.But I think it's dumb for a girl to dump a guy over that,because she has options,she could use a vibrator,dildo or whatever during sex,oral isn't a necessity for a girl. Guys,would you dump a girl for not giving you oral sex? Girls,would you dump a guy for not giving you oral sex? And if you aren't straight,you can answer,just pretend it says girl or guys,whatever your preference is.
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52 30Yes I would dump her cause if she is not gonna give me something important like oral then the sex would be boring... it is necessary to have a good sex...
Yes! I don't want to be with a girl who won't suck my dick as I'd bury my face in her vagina
if the guy doesn't give the girl oral then I think the girl shouldn't either
I love giving ORAL to WOMEN PERIOD!
Dude you are a jerk..
i only give oral to guys who give ME oral... gotta give to recieve.
Thats right..lots of women out there give but never receive and that's not fair!
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If you aren't willing to go down on her, you shouldn't expect her to go down on you. Fair is fair.
I'd rather dump her for not receiving oral sex
Yea if I was doing it to her...
First off, give a little to receive a little. I think it is pretty messed up for you to not return the favor. I personally can say that I have not always been a fan of giving head. I hated everything about it the taste, the texture, everything...BUT in my current relationship, he gives so much that all I want to do is give back, so maybe if you gave a little you would get more...as an answer to your question, would I dump a guy for not giving it to me? probably not, BUT if I was always giving and he was not returning at all...ever, then yes...I would...
if a guy expects a girl to give oral sex then the favour should be returned, its not the most pleasurable thing for a female either but its worth it when you see how much your partner is enjoying themselves!
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so if you dump someone who won't give you oral, how can you not expect the same from a chick? you said you don't like to give oral because of taste or odor, but did you look at it that maybe that is the same way this girl you are dumping feels about the situation? Personally it's not a demand of mine and I believe that you should only give oral if you want to and I don't give it to often just because he wants it. How can you expect to receive and not expect to give?
I agree. Oral should be given willingly, no strings attached. I would never swap a blowjob for favors, sexual or otherwise. That's not in the spirit of it, which is to unselfishly offer pure pleasure. If you don't want to do it, you don't and nobody has the right to demand it, male or female!
how can you dump a girl cb she dnt give oral sex and you dnt give oral sex..?
If you don't do it why should she? Chicken!
oral sex is important especially if she expects you to do it for her. believe me im all for eating the V but is she isn't sucking the D then its not going to work. the worst are the ones that expect you to do it and she dont. I enjoy eating out a lot but im not going to do it for free i need it returned or we can just go our separate ways because in the long run its gonna become a problem.
well in the game of sex its fair to please each other... you mine as well get a robot to give you oral. I think its selfish that you would dump someone who wouldn't give you head but you expect girls to be okay with the fact that "its not your thing" Its completly ridiculous that you have that type of thinking.. its clear that you rely on oral sex to keep a relationship going which I think is sad to dump a girl if she won't give you oral. WOW...
my boyfriend has never given me oral. And yes, its making me consider if I can have that not done to me for..the rest of my life. He wants to be together forever. But if I'm wiling to give him oral and make him happy, shouldn't it be the other way around too? even if he doesn't like it. You think I like doing it? No. But I do stuff to make him happy.
The most selfish thing i have ever read, oral sex is the most satisfying part of sex, and it IS necessary, maybe we can use vibrators but you too can masturbate if you want it that bad, i honestly would dump you
What the fuck dude? What happened to love and shit? Is oral so damn important you'll break up over it? What are the odds you'll get it eventually if you stay together? Anywhere between %0-100. What are the odds if you break up? %0 Unless you find a hook up or something. Really though dude like adults are fucking stupid sometimes. You can masturbate can't you? You have hands and lotion and fingers and toys like dang dude pleasure you're own damn self.
No, I wouldn't, because I don't care for oral.