Would you still eat out a "ugly" vulva?

Question

I have been avoiding this from my boyfrd for the longest time.
So he has been talking about eating me out for some time, and I kinda like erm reject him cos my vulva is fucked up. For some odd reason after puberty, one side of labia minora starting "growing" (swell (?) ) it's like 2 or 3 times darker and bigger than the other side and since it's connected to the cilt hood, its also bigger and kinda swell lookin. ( not the clit but the skin near it) So basically one whole side is puffy and ew.
what if he gets turned off?
or finds it disgusting?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly, it sounds like you're describing my vulva here! Mine's the same... there's one labia that's slightly bigger or looks more swollen than the other side, and like you, it also happened after puberty.
I don't mean to scare you or anything, but have you had it checked out at the doctor's? Mine said it was nothing serious but if it starts to hurt they might have to remove the swelling. Luckily, it hasn't and I'm 30 now, and it doesn't bother me anyway.
As for it looking "ugly", I've had boyfriends licking me out before and they've never complained about it. In fact, some said my vulva felt incredible.
So, go for it!

kitchenwitch13 · Accepted Answer

I have a gay friend who described vaginas as an old person's mouth without the dentures. Or like that thing from Alien. So... no vagina is "pretty." But I'm bi, and damn if I've ever thought a pussy was too ugly to eat out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Your vulva, and thank you for using the correct term, is NOT UGLY.

Graydon · Accepted Answer

Yes I wouldn't care. I am still virgin and I hope to give my virginity to a girl who I love trust and care about. Even though I've never done anything sexual with a girl, if really love her I wouldn't care if her vulva was ugly. NOTE I accidentally seelcted A on the vote because I misread the paragraph so remember that I am on the b side. Sorry. I'd eat her out if I really loved her especially considering the fact that she will probably be the first girl I've ever done anything sexual with. I'm 17 just in case you were wondering.

proFountain · Accepted Answer

Your description of the pussy sounds awesome to me. I like that rather than the boring pussy with all lips tucked tight inside. I like a little protruding labia, It turns me on and makes for great sex.

SwedishTruth · Answer

Honestly 99% guys wouldn't care. As long as you don't smell (bad hygiene) you're good! :)

Mitch6192 · Answer

In all honesty, it might be one of them things you have to try. If he freaks out, move on. The chances are, he'll be ok with it, though. I mean... Would you freak out if a guys size was not up to your standard? It's the same thing.

Dargil · Answer

Vulvas were never designed to be gorgeous. Sure. Yours may look more "industrial" than some but no guy worth his testicles will turn away because of that. I am surprised and disappointed that 58% went against you here. Not trolling when I say I'd like to see a pic. If you are clean and healthy, it shouldn't matter.

reptocarl · Answer

There's no such thing as ugly to us. Stop worrying

vampireelf · Answer

I got a licking fetish, so i lick every kind of pussy 😊 but i dont believe there are ugly ones. Every one is special and different.

cinderelli · Answer

I'm not a guy so I don't know how guys feel about pussies and what they think are ''ugly'' pussies lol

jacquesvol · Answer

An "ugly" vulva? Does that even exist?

RedThread · Answer

You're fine don't worry. I know it's normal to be insecure about something but if a guy you're with has issues with something like that then he isn't work being with to begin with.

DogEatsCat1973 · Answer

Let him decide if it looks tasty or not I have loved licking some that thought theirs looked weird.

oldoldold · Answer

lol they all look. like a smashed crab. unless they have had porn star surgery.  I've never seen one that made me stop

simpaty23 · Answer

your vagina is shaved? cause you can try to get a little hair near vagina to feel this less strange and the zone more dark. try it. not all hair , only near big mouth.