Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health A guy friend of mine who I’ve known for several months invited me over to his house to get drunk. Is he trying to rape me?
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He knows I am a lightweight and wants me to come over and take shots. He didn’t show any interest in me other than platonic until I broke up with my boyfriend, and now he wants to text and hang out all the time. I told him I don’t feel comfortable drinking with him. Is he planning to rape me?
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Ok for everyone saying I’m accusing him of something he hasn’t done, let me be very clear. I am NOT accusing him. This guy is my friend and I want to believe the best about him. I’m just getting red flags and want to know if it’s safe.
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1 31he's planning to fuck you, and as all dudes know, once women are drunk they are easy to fuck
Probably planning to have sex, now that you are available. At least he had enough decency to wait until you are single. Maybe he wants to date you, but it seems like he wants sex before becoming official
Rape, no. But made it easier for you to accept.
The thing is, I told him 2 ounces of champagne got me pretty drunk. He wants to give me vodka or something. He knows I’d be passed out
Good idea though
There is a huge possibility that he intends to do so. Hard to really know what he planned to get you drunk for.
Not to rape you he wanted to have sex with you 😜 while you not in your mind
Technically that is rape. It does fall under the definition where I live
I think rape is just when they like do it when you in your mind and it's like they force you with power
The laws here clearly define it as rape
I really didn't know that's a bad thing to do but didn't know this is a rape anyways be safe
Thank you. I’m honestly not interested in sex with anyone right now so imma be avoiding him lol
I know
Yes. You better watch at your own safety.
Its not safe, he clearly wants to have sex with you and obviously getting you drunk would make that easier.
He may or may not rape you but in any case this is not cool behaviour.
Personally i wouldn't want someone who had to be drunk to fuck me.
I think its extremely inappropriate and frankly offensive for you to phrase your question as is he trying to rape me, like we are all rapists too because as everyone knows all men are rapists, right?
But just because you are insensitive and rude does not mean your fears are completely unjustified, i dont think you should go or have anything to do with him.
He may not rape you but why not get drunk enjoy the sex breakup sex isbamazing