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Sexual Health A guy who didn’t make me orgasm but I told him he gave me an intense orgasm through sexting?
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So a guy was “feeling” but down there (not fingering). I still had my underwear on because, well, we grew up in church and we’re trying to be pure (in a way). It was my first time doing anything sexual. I was extremely nervous, so I didn’t orgasm. He apologized a few days after for not making me cum. I said it was because of my nerves, but that I had an intense orgasm when I was sexting him one night. I wasn’t going to lie and tell him I had an orgasm when he fingered me so I told him the truth. I know he probably felt bad about my nerves that night but he did make me have an orgasm from thinking about him while I used my vibrator and sexting him. (Note: this is not because he wasn’t as good as my vibrator. I was truly freaking out because of what I was doing with him)
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(34)Even though sometimes the truth hurts more than lying to someone, it's always better to tell the truth. It sounds like you are a good Christian woman who has high standards and morals. Don't ever change.
Thank you! Do you think he liked hearing that he still made me cum by sexting him?
I'm sure he liked hearing it but I don't think it totally made up for not giving you an orgasm while he was "feeling you".
There's nothing better than honesty. You could've easily faked an orgasm to make him feel better. We love genuineness. How did he react afterwards?
Back when I was still in high school, I was dating a Mennonite girl. Definitely a virgin and not very much into mutual satisfaction. I did get to fondle her and eventually had sex with her but she never would touch me. Whether she got herself off I don't know. I know she had at least one orgasm from finger fucking her.
Well, I guess its just because you weren't fully focussed while you were with him. Not a big deal.
Next time, be relaxed and calm before doing anything.
I don’t see a problem with what you did at all
Sounds like you two are on the the verge of full on fucking.
This is understandable, I hope that you will eventually work through these nerves
he's fine. If he's normal he will think its hot you came hard while sexting and will def want a second chance to make you cum in person.
Sounds like the right call.
I think telling him the truth was the best decision
Putting myself in his shoes, i would appreciate that
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You would appreciate the sexting orgasm?😄
Definitely That would be such a sexy thing to know about And quite a turn on tbh I bet he enjoyed that part 😊