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A man who cannot satisfy a woman in bed deserves to be cheated on. am I wrong?

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  • aahhh... that might be a little too harsh. The hard thing, besides myself, is teach him - though his behavior is that of a cad. Any man who doesn't have an innate desire to always try to keep a girl turned on. Maybe a good compromise- let me try to satisfy you, build up bigger hungers and satisfy. I promise you'll cum, really, no bullshit the first time. Fuck, I''m hard just writing about it; watching you'd be torn getting to get women to cum, I think it's what it's about. Wow, that didn't make a lot of sense But think about my suggestion

    How old, is it ignorance, selfeshness though getting you off isn't an act performed fora virtue pin. He should be turned on by your sexuality. Seriously consider my offer, ummm maybe should have kept that on the DL

    Is it possible that he has never been encouraged before. I'd want to make you cum as hard and ass many times as you can before we even think about me. Tell him you want to get at least as he understands that you want to.
    It has to be
    1) lack of knowledge
    2) lack of interest
    3) Who the fuck knows:

    Good luck glad I could help

Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't know that "deserves" is the right word. But it's also true that two mature adults capable of a rational discussion should be able to explain to each other the problems with inadequacy and explore solutions, even if an open relationship is one of those solutions. There is no call to be vengeful about it. The woman has needs the man isn't meeting and something has to give. The only real hitch is that men tend to derive their self worth from their ability to please women so they might be in denial about how pleasurable they are. Denial of any kind can be infuriating. But it's important to remember it is defensive - he isn't trying to keep the woman hanging, he is trying not to feel like a failure.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes you are...
    A woman who can't properly teach her partner how to satisfy her in bed shouldn't have sex... Am I wrong?Correct me if I'm wrong, but sex happens with two people, right? So if it's bad, why is the blame just put on one person?
    And bad sex is no excuse to cheat... It's a bullshit justification..
    If not sexually compatible, either learn to be sexually compatible or find a different partner, after ending the current relationship not before ending things...

  • Perhaps you both need to identify what you enjoy in bed and how to get you to climax and enjoy sex with him a little bit better than the current situation. Don’t cheat, if you don’t feel like putting the effort into letting him know what you like, just end the relationship. Cheating should not be in the playbook.

    • The MHO is very much appreciated!

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  • Wrong.

  • You're wrong.

    Everyone deserves good communication.

  • you are wrong, you shouldn't cheat, if its not working out decent thing is to break up and look elswhere. cheating is always wrong

  • Yes you are wrong! Infidelity for ANY reason is wrong! Would it be okay for YOUR BOYFRIEND to cheat on you if you don’t completely satisfy him? If the issue is that big of a deal to you, then break up with him and move on! But cheating on someone just means you have no honor and will severely limit your choices for finding a spouse going forward!

  • I would say you are ABSOLUTELY Wrong. Just break up with him, then go out and fuck whoever you want. There is no need to cheat on anyone... just stop dating them and fuck the next best thing that comes along.

    So cheating is about being dishonest. If are honest with the fact that you do not want to have an monogamous relationship then your are not a cheater. Now if you want a relationship with someone who can not satisfy you sexually then you need to do some self reflection on yourself, because you might not be a honest person.

  • You are wrong! Nobody deserves to be cheated on! If that is an issue break off the relationship and each go his or her own way and find companionship elsewhere

  • Cheating is as dishonest as stealing. I actually think it's deplorable. If she is willing to cheat, she is untrustworthy. And trust is essential for love.

    If she's unsatisfied with her partner, she should either tell him and see if they can find a solution or simply break up. Why stay with him if he is not satisfying her? Why are they together in the first place?

  • Very very VERY WRONG

  • Yes. You are wrong. If he can't satisfy you in bed, you should both talk to each other about what you like. Buy some toys, spice up the love making. If your relationship is great everywhere else, why cheat on him and make yourself look bad? My last relationship my partner never made me cum but I still stayed with him because he was an awesome person. Only reason he and I aren't together was he hooked up with someone behind my back. Now I'm with someone else who treats me way better. :D

  • Break up is the best solution for this problem.

  • Two wrongs don’t make a right.

  • Yes because guys aren´t born sex gods and mostly don´t know how to satisfy a woman without you telling us.

  • Yes you are wrong, because cheating is never justifiable. If a guy is critically failing you in some way, then just leave him and move on.

  • Nobody deserves to be cheated on.
    If anything he deserves to have some clear communication from his woman and if things don't improve he should be let go to move on to someone he can satisfy

  • Yes, you're wrong. No one deserves to be treated that way. How would you like it if your boyfriend/partner/whatever said that you were "inadequate", and that because of that he was going to go out with other girls?
    Why are there so many people who lack basic empathy and common sense on this site?

  • You are wrong.

  • If you're not sexually compatible with someone, then you break up during the dating stage and look for someone new that is a better fit. If you get into a relationship with someone you're not attracted to and you don't enjoy having sex with, then you're fucking retarded considering the primary reason men and women pair together is to have sex with each other and generate offspring... You don't understand the concept of mating... You've failed at life.

  • Yes, you are. If she's unsatisfied she should just end the relationship.

  • I wouldn't say he deserves to be cheated on, if you're not happy in the relationship end it.

  • You are right

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