A person on GaG called me shallow after I wrote I rejected a guy entirely because I didn’t find his face attractive. Do you agree?

His personality isn’t bad. I just didn’t feel interested in dating him entirely because he doesn’t have a good looking face in my opinion.

Im being honest here I wouldn’t feel interested in dating a man with a good looking face but bad personality.

I want to date a man who I think is good looking and has a good personality
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  • I don't see that as being shallow, at all. It is what it is. Men and women both do that routinely, in that we see people that we see as attractive and others not.
    When I was younger, I KNOW I was rejected by younger women because they did not think I was attractive enough for them to go out with. That is simply HUMAN!
    Take this as an example of what we are talking about:

    In my 20's, a girlfriend said to me: "Valerie said she did not know what I was doing with you. YOU can do much better than Bruce. I was hurt of course.

    A MONTH LATER, after a wedding, the BRIDE said to ME: Bruce, what are you doing with SUE? She is UGLY, you can do better! 😂😂😂🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

    Looks like some people's 'looks' are subjective. If he is not attractive to you, don't go out with him!
    Simple - ignore the 'shallow' comment from your girlfriend

    • P. S. remember the sword, cuts both ways for MEN and Women.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's not shallow. People are entitled to their preferences in appearance. There are certain facial shapes and features that others may find attractive even though I don't. I'm not looking for a certain standard of classic beauty, but I do think a face is important when it comes to physical attraction.

    Just because a woman had a wonderful personality wouldn't mean that I would want a romantic relationship with her if I wasn't physically attracted to her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just cause someone is attractive doesn't mean you have to be sexually attracted to them so no your not shallow because there are also many people who are not typically good looking get laid all the time. Its all about personal opinions and preference. What you find not so good looking, others may find desirable. So why settle for less? Go for what you want!

  • It is shallow but you can't help you find attractive. I feel the same way. I wouldn't want to date a guy if I don't like his face, no matter how good his personality is. I too want a guy who I find handsome and has a good personality. Try not to feel too bad about this. We all got preferences. I wouldn't want to date a guy that's shorter than me either.

    • *who you

    • By the way, everyone or at least most people are shallow. I admit I'm shallow too. It's okay to be shallow. Don't listen to people who say otherwise because they're being hypocrites.

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  • Yes, you are shallow and I agree with him.
    However, you have every right to be shallow and can date whoever you want. Just don't try to make excuses for it. It IS shallow.

  • Well okay? You shallow, cool. Time to see if there other fish is better lookin' than the last

  • Attraction does not give a fuck to good or bad. Ultimately, humans are animals whose behaviour can be overridden when their instincts activate.

    • The hallmark of a superior human is how much control they have over their instincts

  • If you’ve brought it up at least twice now it must effect you.

  • You want him to be good at everything AKA perfect, no surprise here. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BeautyEqualsGoodness