Am I late for sex or something?

I was looking at sexuality questions and i keep seeing people have their first time when they are 14 15 .
Should i do it? I know someone i can do it with but i thoight 14 was too early, but when i look ay a question here i dont see someone lost her virginity after 16
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  • I lost mine at 13

  • do when you're ready, no matter when

  • I would suggest actually doing it with someone that means something to you

  • Come back when you are 18.

  • Don't think that you are late with having sex cause I think you're maybe a little too young to have sex. You should do it when you feel totally ready for it.
    Some people are ready when they are 15, others are 20 when they lose their virginity.
    Having sex is not bound to a certain age. Wait till you feel ready for it!

  • Do it in your own time. If you want to, just be safe.

  • Its not a race, I didn't have sex until i was 16 which is the legal age in the UK and it could easily have been much later than that if circumstances had been different.

    I wasn't ready for the responsibility of it or mature enough to do it well.

    If you can't talk about it without being embarrassed you shouldn't be doing it.

  • lots of people lose virginity well after 16. A lot of the people saying they had sex super young on here are catfish who spend their entire days posting sexual fantasy and fetish stuff. It's not real.

  • I read it as if you were like late for an appointment or something. In which case yes, if you check the agenda they had the sex booked in right before the lunch buffet lol.

    Sex isn't about reaching that point first and the people who I know who lost it young regret it. Either through getting pregnant or it being with the wrong person.

    I lost mine around 18/19, can't remember exactly. I dont regret it as the girl was super hot, at the time I thought she was the one. But she decided she liked me sexually but not emotionally. The only thing I would have changed is wishing she had been more patient and nurturing instead of rushing into things I wasn't experienced with. And wishing things had worked out between us.

  • Don't follow your friends or the people on gag. Wait until you are older, at least 18, and only then with someone you have real feelings for.

  • I’m 17 and never had a girlfriend or lost my virginity so just chill be patient the right time will come

  • I still have mine; and I have seen a number of other people in their twenties and thirties that still have theirs. So you aren't late to the party. All the early birds are hyping sex so that they don't look like they got there early.

  • Never too late for sex