My fiancé will not swallow my cum. She says that she doesn’t like it. It hurts me that she’s done it for previous exes (according to her) but won’t do it for the man she’s going to marry. It makes me feel like I’m not good enough. Am I overreacting?
Man... you want something sexually that she doesn't.
It might be a good idea to just stop that marriage. Otherwise you will end up in a marriage where it will be very complicated to leave the relationship.
And if now that she is supposed to be totally swept off her feet and in love, she won't do it, later on when the butterflies and heavenly feeling subsides, she definitely won't.
She might end up swallowing once or twice after a long and difficult session of you begging for it. But you'll always end up wanting it to happen more often.
Also there is a bigger danger that when you guys hit a rough patch, you'll could end up cheating on her.
Or worse, on a bad day or when you are in a dark zone, you could end up forcing her.
Either way, you would be smart to walk away from this.
Did she say why she did for the other guys and not you? Seems a little harsh if she was okay with the other guys.
Although, maybe she said she meant to say, I did it with those other guys and did not like it at the time either. Then you really have nothing there with respect to her doing it for other guys. It may have taken awhile to figure it out and say, I am not doing that anymore.
I mean I don't love it but I do it for my man sometimes especially if he request me too. Although we all have hard no amd that should be respected. U should really think to urself if u are compatible. She not wrong for not wanting to do it and not doing it but ur not wrong for wanting it
she should be swallowing your cum if she truly loves you you have a right to demand it plus it's a form of rejection if she doesn't accept your cum into her mouth to swallow... i think swallowing is mandatory if you want to be in a real relationship that's commital.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, she would be able to some hard things in life and get over herself. This is not a good sign as that's standard behavior. You are marrying high maintenance.
Well… some women dislike cum. Difficult to force a woman to do that but I’d be hurt like u. Ask her why she won’t do it, talk more, maybe she’ll warm up to it
Yes, you are wrong. Her choice. Unbelievable how many guys think they should be able to control women like that.
You can feel it? Y you don't swallow her cum?
Dude it is her body and her choice. Does she still blow you and spit it out? If so just enjoy the orgasms. Do you return the favor every time?
If all else fails a great lubed up handjob can also be great as you know.
So you got engaged to someone who is not sexually compatible with you? Looks like one of you has to compromise or call off this engagement before your marriage turns into a disaster.
You are wrong to be mad at her. If you're actually mad then yes, that's overreacting.
She gets to choose what she does and does not want to do sexually.
If that hurts you, that is your choice. But in that case end it with her rather than be hurt that she's making a sexual choice -- and a valid one.
(And, by the way, what she did in the past is irrelevant. She can change and change her mind.)
Sure, but at the same time he gets to choose if he's gonna let her stay at his house and eat his food.
Yes, you are wrong. It's her choice to swallow or not, and wrong for you to expect (or demand) it.
Hey, try this! Let her spit the semen in YOUR mouth and you swallow it! It probably hurts her that you won't swallow your own semen!.
Geeeze, you're breaking my heart with this High School boy sob story.
No. She is not as sexually attracted to you as the other maybe? When a girl says I don't do that... Add... With you... If she was willing to do it for other guys she should do that and more for someone she wants to marry.
Yes you are. Enjoy what you get and don't be jealous about the past.
Talk to her. But if she won't accept it, then move on to next subject. Don't get upset over something small.
Ya overreacting.
Without knowing her reasons. Maybe you should try changing your diet.
I have heard that pineapple will sweeten your cum. Can’t remember what is supposed to make it bitter!
this is your que to exit stage right. trust me son... run as fast as you can. If she won't swallow your cum on the eve of you signing up to be with her as she gets old and fat, what do you think your sex life will be like in say 5 years after you give her a baby or two and has has zero need for sex. Seen about every friend I had in High school get a divorce over this kind of shit exactly. I've got a million dollars and my house that says a few years after marriage you will learn that "blowjobs are gross" altogether. Soon this woman will serve the sole purpose of burning through your money and keeping you sexually frustrated for the rest of your life and nothing else. Best of luck to you
ridiculous
Yes you are
Don't force her, be a good lover, respect her
you're pathetic. she's better off without you just dump her
then don't marry her if you think this is such a big deal lmao
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