Any tips for my first time with my boyfriend?

I'm going to spend the night with my boyfriend for the first time next weekend. We've never had sex but we've dry humped and he's fingered me before. With that said I have a few questions
1. I want to wear something sexy for him what should I wear?
2. Whats the best position for the first time? Missionary?
3. How much foreplay should we do?
What foreplay do guys like?
4. How messy is it and what do we need to clean up?
5. Is there anything special I need to spend the night? Other than extra clothes and hygiene stuff?
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    1. I want to wear something sexy for him what should I wear? Knowing nothing about your body shape, it's hard to tell. If you have a nice figure, maybe a push up bra, G-string, and stiletto pumps.
    2. Whats the best position for the first time? Missionary? I suggest spoon. Here's a link to a My Take I wrote. It says it's for anal but it all applies, just a different target.

    . https://www. girlsaskguys. com/sexual-behavior/a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time

    3. How much foreplay should we do? A lot to get you wet and open.
    What foreplay do guys like? Kissing, playing with each other's bodies, exploring each other physically.
    4. How messy is it and what do we need to clean up? No worry. You'll have everything you need.
    5. Is there anything special I need to spend the night? Other than extra clothes and hygiene stuff? Just you.

    • Thanks that was very helpful

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  • 1. Wear something that is that is not tight fitting. Something that shows your curves and boobs, but not popping out.
    2, The best position for the first time is missionary
    3. You need a goo amount of foreplay, to be sure that you are warmed up and well lubricated. How turned on you are, and how well lubricated will actually be the issue, not just time. Guys like you to play with their balls and dick, do some sucking, kissing of his dick, running your fingers across his dick and balls. He will like your tits rubbed up against him. Let him kiss and suck your tits, But don't get him so turned on, that he will cum, or almost cum too soon. Better a little less foreplay for him, than too much.
    4. You may have some blood, and there will be semen. If you fuck bare, then semen will ooze out of your vagina when you stand up. Have a good sized towel under you, or something else, that can be taken off the bed and washed. Remember, there may be blood on it, and semen stains. You may want some kleenex to wipe off with after he cums. Or you may just go au naturel and let if go wherever it will, which mostly mean on the towel, but also oozing from his dick.
    5. Make sure there is plenty of water soluble lubricant. You may need this to ease him into you. There may be some pain, sometimes more than some pain.
    6. Birth control
    7. Be sure you are where it's quiet, and you will not be disturbed.

    • Thank you

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  • 1. I want to wear something sexy for him what should I wear?

    Any tips for my first time with my boyfriend?

    A Babydoll would work

    2. Whats the best position for the first time? Missionary? Yes
    3. How much foreplay should we do? Lots
    What foreplay do guys like? You sucking him
    4. How messy is it and what do we need to clean up? Use a condom and have a towel close by
    5. Is there anything special I need to spend the night? Other than extra clothes and hygiene stuff? Nope, that's all you need. Have fun.

    • Thank you so much Where would I buy something like that? Victoria secret?

    • Yes, you might be able to get it on time from Amazon, if you rush it. But really all you need is an oversize T-shirt with nothing else, and he'll be thrilled.

    • Ok thank you

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  • 1. Wear anything you want as long as it isn't old, stretched out, or holey. A girl slowly shuffling towards you with that look in her eye while she wears just a bra and panties is just as exciting as any lingerie.
    2. Missionary is pretty standard, but if it's your first time you might want to consider being on top so you can control how he goes in you better.
    3. As much as you'd like. I recommend grabbing some massage oil and giving each other a sensual massage.
    4. It's not usually that messy. If you're not using a condom you might want a rag or a washcloth to place under you when he pulls out, that way all the fluids don't spill right onto the bedsheets.
    5. Just the usual.

    Remember, don't overcomplicate things for your first time. Keep it simple. You can spice up your sex life anytime, and your first time is already loaded with enough expectations and nervousness, no need to throw in even more things to do.

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  • Just relax and have fun.

    Try missionary first, then cowgirl.

    Have him eat you out

    Main thing is to have him use a condom. Bring a change of clothes and some hygiene stuff. Shower after sex. Sexy lingerie is great if you can get some.

    • Thank you that's very helpful What counts as sexy lingerie?

    • Pretty much all of it!

    • So like lace bra and panties would do?

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  • 1. Want sex schoolgirl outfit, if not something less modest but semi revealing.
    2. If his penis curves up you want doggy. Missionary is for old people. You could straddle him while he sitting ( facing him) that a good one, too. Missionary = 'straight or smaller penis.
    3. Foreplay is important, guys get aroused quicker especially when gal is nude. Work up to it

    , tease then play with each other until you are lubricated and want it inside you. Make him pay gradually for that ultimate gratification. Wear condoms that feel natural to him if worried bout STDs. I need oral sex usually to be hard enough for entry. Anal sex should come later, not now. Learn to say yes and no to things. You determine the pace, okay?
    4 With a condom usually not too messy. Several kleenexes either way for each other. It washes off. Lubricants might be needed tho! It easy with small towels to cleanup.
    5. Nope, you sound ready. Slow and steady wins this race. Good luck! Have fun first orgasms. If you feel uncomfortable comnunicate it

    • What's a sexy school girl outfit?

  • Just tell him what feels good an do what you only like

  • Just make sure he uses a condom.

    • I'm on the pill