Anyone else find it strange when people refuse to fulfill kinks and fantasies that their partner desires?

I've never turned down a kink or fetish my partners have had. What's the point in being with someone if you're just going to keep saying no or only doing a small subset of what you know they enjoy? Am I missing something?

It's wild how many people complain about their partners not doing things they would like to do.
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  • Yeah that's an awesome way to think, until suddenly you're with a guy that's into illegal stuff.

  • Not all humans are willing to do it. Male or female.

  • Compatibility is a huge issue that people need to be more comfortable discussing and accepting in a relationship

  • I do most things, most girls like oral and having their nipples sucked. I like having my nipples bitten really hard. When I take a girl from the rear (doggie) most girls like to have their ass slapped and say "give me more."

  • it can be frustrating... especially if you are willing to do anything for your SO and they refuse to do the same

  • Most play with the idea but few will go all the way in every arena. I think that’s quite normal. You are some kinda Goddess woman...

  • Nope, all kinks, yes, some kinks, no.

    Imagine that your partner kink is seeing you fuck kids on camera and posting it online with your face on the police's Twitter?

  • We should respect boundaries of other people. Everyone has limits, it's not weird at all. Maybe you should find a guy whose boundaries are similar to yours

  • I think some people find certain kinks disgusting and refuse to do them

    • sure but most the vast majority of kinks aren't disgusting

    • True, bu that is kind of an individual choice. What doesn't bother you might bother someone else.

    • but isn't it strange to tell your partner "no im not going to do the things you enjoy" seems insane to me

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  • How is that strange? If it's not then why it's called kink?

  • nope

    they have a right not to. if you dont think it's weird that you should be forced to to kinks just cause your partner does, then that's fucked up, and you belong in an insane asylum, solitary confinement, with no chance of parole

  • I'm open minded when it comes to sex, but I for example will never let a girl convince me to let her put cockroaches all over my genitals. Never again, at least.

  • Yeah seems a bit odd alright

  • It is pretty weird, I'm always up for kink/fantasies 😈😁

  • I do respond negatively to acceptable requests. I hate things like BDSM. If my partner asks for such a thing, I will not accept it. I respond positively to acceptable beautiful fantasies.

  • Yeah i do hate that

  • I am down for trying most anything within reason. I love the Idea of a fmf or ffm threesome but it wouldn't be fair to ask because I don't think I could share her with another guy.

  • As long as its not scat or vomit I can’t think of much else that would be undoable

  • Id marry the shit out of you lol. All kinks welcome just no underage stuff

  • I'll do anything to my limits

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