Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Are cumshots degrading or disrespectful towards women?
Anonymous
I've heard girls say this and even my own mother taught me to not let guys do that to me. I never really questioned it until now. I went out with a guy Wednesday night and it went fantastic. We really clicked. Anyway, we ended up having sex. He pulled out and came on my stomach and boobs. I never had that done to me before. The thing is, I didn't feel disrespected by it. He was a gentleman. He cuddled with me after and he texted me the next day wanting to go out again this weekend and see how I was. I feel like it's ok to allow this. Do other girls allow it, or am I way off base here?
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 21Honestly, I think it's like very hot when a girl let's cum all over her especially on her face.
It's one of the legacies of feminism, which taught women that essentially anything but plain vanilla sex was disrespectful to women. Thank god women like you are beginning to question that.
Guys cumming is so disrespectful, just look at the 7 billion people it resulted in.
I think they mean on the face... but I think it's rediculious that guys want to cum on us. fucking gross.. and weird.. can a guy please explain this to me
Your comments mirror what I hear from friends. Thing is, I didn't feel disgusted or degraded by it and I didn't get a sense that he even meant it that way. It felt kind of natural if that makes sense.
I can't explain it, I agree with you. It's not something I'd do unless she particularly wanted me to, and even then I think I'd still find it a bit weird.
Well he didn't do it on your face.. do you think you would feel differently if he had? @asker
I'm really not sure about the face. I guess I'll jump that hurdle when I get to it.
Ya when i think cum shot.. I think to the face... so I think you'll change your mind about that.. hehe..