Are dildos technically cheating?

I see lots of guys on here with the opinion that using a dildo is cheating.

Personally i just ordered a new one and dont see them that way as it doesent belong to anyone its just for my personal pleasure and i am not in love with it.

I see the fact that you are using another sexual part to pleasure yourself but surely a fleshlight is the same thing?
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  • No, anyone who thinks that is an entitled, immature smooth brain. And those who think that a bigger one makes you loose have a serious lack of understanding of how vaginas work.

  • This question made me laugh so hard, but no it’s not cheating.

  • No of course they're not cheating, its just a form of masturbation.

  • There is nothing that I like more then seeing a girl pleasure herself with a dildo and if I had a girlfriend I would love for her to use one, so I am all cool about dildos just some guys are shallow minded so beware of them kind LoL

  • LOL no. A dildo is not a man.

  • No, and the more the better. They are also fun to include with sex with your boyfriend.

  • What kind of sensitive men say that? Lol Jesus... no, it’s not cheating.

  • Sis. Babe. Sweetheart. How do you think I stayed a virgin for so long. Dildos are not cheating unless there is another man (or woman) attached. Get yours sis. Chase your cum.

    • How are you virgin if you all the plastic and rubber pipes penetrated to you? 🤔 Your just mentally virgin because you never had sex with a real man but a true virgin have an intact hymen and haven't experienced penetration before!

    • BUT still better than many other girls, at least no man had touched you or saw you naked!

    • How cute. A tiny minded, which I can only assume reflects what is your pants, man being upset about dildos. The funny this is a hymen is very very fragile. It'll break from a tampon (Ahhh periods scary to men like you I know) so how about you stay in your place and call me when you can find where the clit is. Or learn how to make a woman orgasm. Have a great day baby

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  • I've seen guys seem insecure about their girls using one because they feel it means he doesn’t pleasure her enough, but never heard someone go as far to say it’s cheating.

    I think anyone grown and mature understands that masturbation is normal and won’t have a problem with their partner having sex toys (unless it’s somehow affecting the sex)

  • It's few and dar between on males who feep this way

    Also you have to take into account liars and trolls

  • It's not, everyone needs to tickle themselves how they see fit.

  • bruh no 😂

  • Is playing with urself cheating?
    Absolutely not.
    Enjoy it with no guilt.

  • If that’s the case then them using their hands is cheating.

    • Exactly 😂😂😂

  • Cheating on no nut November maybe

  • no xD that's just masturbation.

  • What? No! Of course it isn't cheating!

  • No they aren't

  • No, no more that any other eorkout equipment. Just a tool for self gratification

    • Very vwey true xxx

  • Yea but let be real. A guy doesn't want a girl that is using a BIGGGGG HUGE dildo that is like 10 inches around so that when he fucks her her pussy is not loose as a goose. If your loose as a goose that is not fun. If your like looser than a 50 foot rope slung around a tree who is gonna get any joy out of that? Nither you nor him. So what's the point. I think it is all about the size of the dildo. Put a small one in your pussy and you will be fine.

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