Are dildos technically cheating?

I see lots of guys on here with the opinion that using a dildo is cheating.

Personally i just ordered a new one and dont see them that way as it doesent belong to anyone its just for my personal pleasure and i am not in love with it.

I see the fact that you are using another sexual part to pleasure yourself but surely a fleshlight is the same thing?
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  • Nope it's not cheating. It's not a person.

  • No more than masturbation in general could be considered cheating, which it shouldn't be.

  • Nope... I bought my partner one to use whenever she wants.

    • Bigger or smaller than you

    • Roughly the same, but I didn’t really think about that part... it has three vibrating modes as well, that was what I considered.

    • I like her getting off with it.

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  • It’s only cheating if it involves another person.

  • "Guys thinking using a dildo is cheating"... that could be my laugh of the day. Well I guess you have multiple dildo's, one might jealous of the other!! Or maybe the beer bottle or cucumber you were using before might get jealous? Last thing you want is your beer bottle to get pissed at you, you know?

  • Anyone who thinks using a dildo is cheating should check themselves into a mental hospital asap

  • NOOOO... that is like when a guy masturbates that is cheating lol

  • No, using dildos is not cheating, it's just pleasuring yourself sexually.

  • No. Not at all

  • No, they're not. But if you use that as a substitute for spending time with your partner and you neglect them, then that wouldn't be right.

  • It's nor cheating but it's weird cause a girl surely doesn't needs such toys when the real thing is available, cause nothing gives a girl extreme pleasure more than the real thing of her man!

    If he ain't at home for a long time and you wanted to use such things, i don't see them wrong, but don't use so often if he's present everyday with you cause this might give him insecurities and thinks that he's not performing well with you!

  • Not at all because dildo or an other toy is "fabricated", not a real cock. Girls use it (or some guys let the girl use and watch) for self pleasure.

  • Dildos are but cheating any more than masturbating in any other fashion. Are you gonna tell me these same guys aren't wanking themselves off?

  • Wut? No.
    That doesn't even make any sense.

    Well maybe if you're refusing your BFs advances to masturbate instead I could kind of see where they're coming from.

  • Not cheating. Masturbate however you like.

  • No, a dildo is not a dick.

  • Using a dildo is not cheating. There isn't a man attached to it, it's a toy.

  • No way. Do whatever pleasures you.

  • No they are not

  • No it is not cheating, I don't even understand how this question would even come up.

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