Are men afraid of their dick size even if they have big ones?

[happyfoetus]

a guy asked me 'was his bigger than mine'

[God_of_Thunder]

I'm not, and I can only speak for myself.

I just have no reason to be insecure. Even as someone who is, statistically, on the larger side, I know that there are still guys out there who are bigger, but I also don't care. I wouldn't want to be any bigger than I already am. I'm content, and I'm proud of what I have.

I don't really care about the size of my partners' exes, because why would I be? I really don't understand the mentality behind that. If he's smaller, who cares? If he's bigger, who cares? You can be big, and be terrible at sex, or you can be small, and be amazing. I said before that I'm proud of my size, but I'm more proud of my tongue, because it takes more than a big dick to be good at sex.

I suppose I may feel differently, if I were smaller, but I don't know. It's not like it's something that can be changed, so I don't know that I'd even bother being concerned with it, and I'd still have my tongue, anyway. 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Once a girl has a big dick then no other dick will be as good unless it's bigger no matter what lies she tells you. They will always think of him and always wish she still had him..

Guys do yourself a favor always ask her this and if she says yes then walk way from her immediately. You are wasting your time..

Girls don't lie be honest.

[GreatVallue]

There's only ONE way to resolve this...

Him: Was he bigger than me?

You: Yes.

Him: Did you like that he was bigger?

You: Yes.

Him: Do you wish you were with him instead of me?

You: Not at all.

There's a brilliant line in the movie: "Clear and Present Danger."

The president was worried about a scandal that could come out, because he had associations with a guy who was bad. He asked one of his advisors what he should tell the press. His advisor said: "Were we friends? Hell no! We were best friends."

Perfect answer. It's much like the dog that chases the mail truck. When the truck stops, the dog goes home. lol

[Frank1010]

What if he’s into that tho?

[GreatVallue]

@Frank1010 Into what?

[Frank1010]

Hearing the other guy was bigger

[GreatVallue]

@Frank1010 There's probably a 50% chance he will like it. But with the dialog I gave, she won't be in the hot seat. Now it will be on him. I can tell you a funny story, if you want.

[Frank1010]

Please

[GreatVallue]

@Frank1010 My friend had a boyfriend, and he forgot to bring a condom to her place. She said it wasn't a problem, because she thinks she has some. She did, and she handed him a double or triple XL. (That was really dumb on her part, but she didn't think about it) Obviously, her boyfriend wanted to know why she had these. She just said they were left over from her ex. It was like a kick in the gut for him, and it troubled him for a couple of months. But then he got over it and got turned on by it. When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade.

[Frank1010]

Wow I don't know if I could get over it like that, because it was her ex boyfriend. I don't know I always would be jealous and all of that stuff but now I get turned on by stuff I’m trying with my girlfriend. Took me a while to stop being jealous and insecure but I still couldn’t handle her telling me a story about her ex boyfriend or a situation like you just told

[GreatVallue]

@Frank1010 Relationships are complicated. It's hard to know what to say. There was/is a fascinating YouTube video, but good luck finding it. 100 women were taken to a dildo warehouse. They were all asked to pick two dildos out of the zillions of sizes. They were told that one dildo would represent what they would want in a hookup/one-night-stand, and the other would represent what they would want in a husband. They all picked a smaller size for the husband. It's because a husband is way more than a dick. Now, how can a woman convey that to her guy? She can't. So don't even try.

[DrewJohnson]

Excellent response.

[GreatVallue]

@DrewJohnson Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Another penis size question.

[Guy13]

The whole dick size is silliness…as long as guy 5plus.

[NathanDavis]

Tokyo should be afraid...

[Blackcupcake]

@prettypriya has the best answer for this

[PrettyPriya]

Which one shall I give the asker? I have 4 lol.

[Blackcupcake]

the newest version

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya 👀

[PrettyPriya]

To comply with @blackcupcake's request, here is my newest SR #218B (version B for slight changes): Yet another person inquiring about penis size. Well, here it comes! Newly minted SR (Standard Response) #218. Did he name it yet? Does he plan on practicing nautical knot tying or something? Why do guys need anymore than average or even less? With all this measuring guys do, I would think they majority are studying to be a carpenters, but I doubt that is the type of hammering they are into. Speaking of hammering…what makes guys think they need a huge penis anyhow? The approximate depth of the vagina is typically 3-4”. I’m sorry, but I don’t need an 8” penis to use my cervix for boxing practice. We girls care much more about the emotional connection we share with our partners opposed to your belief that we need some huge penis to satisfy us. That special connection is what makes intimacy so good. Guys should be happy that they have a functioning one and any girls want to go near it. They need to worry about things that really matter, not the size of their willy. No matter how many times we say it, guys just don’t listen.

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya if i can't use it as a jump rope. Don't bother coming to me. I want a penis jump rope😭

[PrettyPriya]

@Msputiton pp 🙂

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya yes we could call it the pp rope

[Frank1010]

@PrettyPriya some guys are into it tho

[Msputiton]

@Frank1010 using a pp for a jump rope?

[Frank1010]

@Msputiton I don't know what that means

[Blackcupcake]

@msputiton he meant naming their pp…

[Msputiton]

I think they should all just be named PP.

[PrettyPriya]

@Msputiton AGREED

[Msputiton]

@PrettyPriya done. Law passed

[Frank1010]

@Msputiton I meant hearing the other guy was bigger

[Charliefretz329]

@Msputiton you could jump on mine…

[JPresidente]

A young person, probably. Seasoned confident men don't worry about that kinda stuff.

[Havthrills]

Lol. Some are, not all

[Sparkie460]

I'm quite comfortable with the size of my dick. It works as it's supposed to and I haven't had any complaints about my performance

[MadClown]

Yes, we are always afraid.

dk size is something functional unlike breasts.

a breast can be small and the sex would still be great but If a dk is small sex is likely to get affected.

[pizzalovershouse]

Not guys comfortable with who they are

[DrewJohnson]

I'm comfortable with my size. It doesn't matter if she's been with a guy bigger than me.

[Pudsmucker]

Yes a lot of us men are self-conscious of our manhood. That's why we make up stories.

[dean53AU]

Doesn't bother me but a lot do worry about that. Lol

[Avatar74]

Guys with large penises probably aren't insecure about the size, guys with average penis size might be.

[nudeNhorny]

yes we tend to do that

[nudeNhorny]

I'm interested in your story who is that guy and why he asked you this if you want you can dm me

[Charliefretz329]

@Msputiton you could jump on mine…

[Charliefretz329]

I was afraid of my side before I used it a few times and was reassured. Now I’m scared it’ll be too big 😔

[Frank1010]

You’re sleeping with the guy who asked you that?

[happyfoetus]

Yes. I did before he asked me

[Frank1010]

I think it’s common. Either the guy who asked is insecure about his manhood or he likes an ego boost if he has a big dick and assumes you’ll likely tell him yes. There also are guys who get turned on by this sort of thing. No matter if they’re bigger or smaller

[Frank1010]

I was definitely Afraid of my size. Even after my first time. Any first time sex I had with someone new I was scared, every single time. Until I met my girlfriend, that time was just natural

[BLP11520]

You have what you have... if she don't like yours move on

[Yellovv]

I am happy with mine because big enough also I have nice shaped one, girls like it, they never had any complain about it..

[kareka]

Yes we always try to be the best HAHA

[StephanX]

I was started to wonder after i gave been rejected my girls sleeping with me cuz it was too big... some love it some sre afraid to even try so this might be the case

[gettingold30]

I am afraid because I have a small dick