Are there guys who don’t force girls to have sex in a relationship?

I heard that here and there , there are guys who force their girlfriends to have sex with them.
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I had to deal with something embarrassing - my boyfriend constantly says “I’ll f#4k for hours and every night. Frequently I feel hot and p4nis is just hard when thinking of you.” Once I thought I just had to let go, he hurt me so much when penetrating. I said I’m not ready he still continued. I tried to push away his hips. He said I shouldn’t scream. the penetration happened many times. I bled severely for 2 days. It looked like period blood and everything was sore.. even when walking
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Absolutely, I dont ever push my girlfriend to do anything she dont want to. she's a virgin and I lost it in high school. I deal with my needs if I can't get will help. Remember, it's a 2 way street. I've been in a relationship where I was told to do it every night, it was to the point it hurt and j was afraid to wet myself because my muscles in the groin were getting overly used. And a touch of an erectile dysfunction Sam in until I got a rest.

  • I never did... my first ex got me into bed after 5 months (her exact quote was 'my A-levels were easier than getting you into bed') and my second ex got bored of waiting after 2 months of flirting and blew me while I was intoxixated and asleep on her father's sofa

Most Helpful Girls

  • 8 year relationship, never pressured me once.. We do sexual things, but never had sex so far.. These guys exist

  • No one should treat their partner that way. Not ever. in my opinion you were raped.

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  • Of course there are. Consent is the foundation for sex.

    • I'm so sorry that happened to you. Are you still with him?

    • Yea but I’m thinking of leaving but don’t let him know right now.

    • I hope you do leave. You deserve better.

  • Yep I am. But I expect from her too that she never forces sex or even any sexual things.

  • ... Sex is a natural and normal part of every healthy relationship. That being said, being forced to have sex is exactly rape. Soo perhaps you should consider the wording of this question if you're looking for a different kind of answer.

  • Pretty sure that's called rape.

  • I've never forced a girl to have sex with me. Even within a relationship, if you have to force someone there is no consent, hence it can be considered as rape.

  • The vast majority of guys do not and would not. Almost all gfs want to have sex anyway.

  • Most of us don't.

  • A man who truly loves you wouldn't force you to do anything, he doesn't really love you, he was only thinking about himself, otherwise, he would not have done that!

  • According to your update, you got yourself a real animal there. You women know how to pick em. Pounding a puss to blood is f-d up plain and simple. Sounds like you are dating a future inmate.

    Personally, her horniness gets me going. The only and best sex is she has the lead of when and if. I probably am too straight and boring for the animal sex crowd; I only go for sensual, orgasmic, sex.

  • I mean you're always free not to be a guys girlfriend anymore xD

  • Your update sounds like sexual assault. Why would you stay with him if he can't respect you

    • Yes you are right. I’m gonna end the relationship I guess.

  • Yeah, me.

  • With me it's up to the gal if she wants to or not. Never force it's not really good for either by being forced.

  • I never force. I may strongly recommend.

    • Strongly? You mean you’d say that you want it.

    • It was a poor joke I guess. I would never force anything. Physically or verbally.

    • Okay I see

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  • Forced sexual encounter is a part of my current relationship. It's an agreed to dynamic that she wanted. However, I have had relationships where that was not part of the dynamic. All depends on who's involved.

  • I dont do it

  • I feel with this lockdown it's a lot of forcing going on. Look at the police reports.

    • Sounds like your boyfriend is into rape or trying to play a raper.

  • I'm demisexual. Which means I dont have any sexual attraction untill I fall in love. But I never force anything

  • I would never force my girl to do anything, let alone something so important. (How can it even feel good if she doesn’t want it? Don’t both need to want it?)

  • Yeah i never force my friends or gfs to have sex with me. I respect them as human beings. Besides i never go without anyway considering they jump me. 😂😂

    • That is not right. 😮

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