i think ALL girls could find themselves being in a lesbain relationship if they met the right person... take any 2 people they might not fit... but there could be a time in your life when your mysteriously and amazingly attracted to another female for many reasons even though you persumed straight it could happen... comparing and contrasting the difference between a man and a woman are many... i think you will feel every moment with a girl stronger if your not ordinarily gay... it can feel very intense and very passionate if you get past doing a gay act with someone but it's stronger than that it's not just another person... plus it's so nice to have someone who really cares about you cares about your dreams your day to day things... some boyfriends don't even know your name... i'm kidding but i'm sure they didn't care to know much about us... or me... all i'm saying be open to meeting a girl... it's hard to find it in a bar or on the net i think it has to be destiny... some kind of chance... i'm sure other straight girls feel the way i do about meeting another girl.
oh don't be afraid to be gay if your feelings are strong... love is great... i can see being embarassed but you shouldn't let that stop you.
I'm fed up of men. Girls are more trustworthy, reliable, emotional, less perverted and take relationships more seriously.
But I'm not attracted yet to any...
Im straight but did have one really sexual experience with a girl in college that totally changed my life and maybe put me on the spectrum a little bit haha.
I had never ever had any feelings towards a girl until my friend Jordan brought her friend Abby over who was visiting from California. We smoked a little and Abby was the most amazing personality I'd ever met. Everything she said and did was amazing. She openly admitted she was bi and said she thought I was so beautiful. I kinda laughed her compliments off but later that night we went clubbing and started dancing on one another. Next thing you know I'm grabbing her and pulling her in and we started kissing. It was amazing and I'd never wanted to fuck a human being that much before. She left the next day but I still think about her even years later
Thank you for sharing that :)
that was beautiful
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think of myself as 98% straight. I don't think of guys sexually. But when I was younger I gave serious consideration to the idea that I might be bi or gay. When I was first developing into a sexual (adult/reproductive/mature) person around the ages 14-16, I started masturbating to thoughts and images of females, but I thought maybe there was a chance I was a closet homosexual, since I had heard that sometimes a homosexual will be repressed and not even know themselves that they are homosexual. So I tried thinking about men or images of men but it did not turn me on sexually, so I was pretty sure I was straight.
In college, there was a gay guy in the dorms who was always trying to convince me to let him fellate me, and I was always turning down his offers. But there was a night when I was drunk and horny watching some (female/herterosexual) porn and he offered again. I thought, hey why not, it would be better than autoeroticism, so I let him while I kicked back and watched porn. But it wasn't very satisfying, and just kind of made me a little more frustrated, at while point he offered anal. So I strapped on a jimmy hat and did it, while trying hard to focus on the porn and pretend it was the girl on the screen I was doing this with. It was not a wonderful time, I was really fighting these thoughts in my head and trying to fantasize over the reality so hard it made it tough to get to orgasm. It was like a chore. I would not repeat that experience.
On a trip to Thailand, I met a ladyboy, but I did not know she was a tgirl. We danced and ended up walking down the beach together and hung out, then went back to my bungalow and made out. But then she said she had to go to the bathroom and ran away. Once I realized this, I got mad she bailed like that (for what I thought was no reason), so I went back to the bar where I met her and started to confront her, but she ran off with her friends. I walked back to my bungalow, but was too agitated to sleep so I went out walking and there she was at an outdoor restaurant. I forgot how, but we started talking again and at that point she tried to explain to me, but with her English I didn't understand what she was trying to say. I thought she was saying I wouldn't like her because she was Thai or something else, I didn't dream it was because she had a penis. I said there was not a reason for me to not like her so she came back to my bungalow and we started making out again. I felt something (her penis) at one point but my mind told me it was probably a maxipad. Eventually, mid-pash, I finally realized and freaked out with surprise. She freaked out too, because I was freaking out, and said she had tried to tell me, then it all came together. At that point, I had been thinking of her as a girl for so long and lusting after her (and she was very feminine) so I went ahead and did anal with her. We hung out all week and I let her suck me a couple times, but it was a bit difficult after I found out about her penis, my attraction just started to shift away.
So my takeaway was that the only time I can mess around with guys is if I can imagine they are cisgirls, which makes me pretty straight. I don't seek out men, even tgirls (which I do think there are a lot of hot tgirls out there, but the point is they are hotter the more convincing they are at being cisgirls) since there are plenty of women. But I obviously can't say I'm 100% straight since I am such a horn dog, it seems I'll take any hole in a pinch. XD
I have ZERO sexual attraction towards men. As I've said many times, if the only way I could detect men was via an "attraction meter", then all men would be invisible to me; I wouldn't even know they exist.
I don't have any problem with men who are gay or bi - they should be who they are - but I have no interest in having any involvement with that at all.
Even when I was a young boy of 3 or 4, I was always fascinated and attracted to girls, and nothing has changed in 50 years.
Even if you aren't attracted to dudes, you probably crave a hard peen in your butt. Dudes have a prostate gland that supposedly feels good when stimulated. :)
@supercutebutt LOL. If I were to presume to tell you what you liked sexually, I'm sure you'd throw a fit, but it's fine for you to presume to tell me what I like. Anyway, you're mistaken, but feel free to believe what you wish if you need that to sleep at night.
How would you know if you don't like something without trying it? Your response is nonsensical.
🤔 I can say a girl Is pretty or a girl is Beautiful or a girl is Hot or Sexy but say Mmm 😋 I want... Nope it doesn't extend there. I am aware of where a girl falls on an attractive level but I am not arousaled by them.
I SIGH AND ADORE AND SWOON OVER MEN🤪🥰😍😘💋😈🤩🤯💕💋❣️🥵
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I have always liked girls and I am fortunate to live in a open-minded society where people generally mind their own business and do not judge other peoples sexual preferences. All of my girl friends are bi or les. I honestly don't know any girls or women who have not at least experimented with another girl. I have been to the USA many times and while they have made a lot of progress in the past few decades, there is still a long way to go before this is universally accepted as normal. I know there are many girls there who hide their attraction to other girls from their parents and friends. It is sad that they have to suffer like that.
Do you like younger girls as well? I always have.
Freud and Kinsey both says that some level of bisexuality is actually the norm; I'm not sure how they'd really know. I have my doubts, but also don't think it really matters. I've never had so much a single homosexual feeling in my life. I have nothing against those who do, though, and I sometimes wonder if that's part of why.
Even in the 21st-century USA, there's still a bias against homosexuality, especially male homosexuality. This manifests itself in many odd ways. There's an attitude, held to by a great many men here, that the only two possible responses to sexual imagery are arousal and revulsion. This, I'm convinced, is why even the clear outline of a FULLY CLOTHED penis will often evoke gasps of horror from men. (I sometimes wonder how they even masturbate.) Women, for whatever reason (s), don't react the same way to images or implications of female nudity. I suspect this is part of the reason we see so many questions here asking if straight girls exist.
I do not share this attitude. To me, a naked guy is a naked guy. He doesn't arouse me; but I see no need to be repelled. And neither greed nor pride have ever been my deadly sin of choice; tastes differ, and I say we should have everyone's preferred flavor of eye candy. Part of me wonders if this isn't a culture-wide case of cognitive dissonance. I guess we'll find out in forty or fifty years as the folks who lived when homosexuality was seen a social abomination die off.
I consider myself as bicurious and I'm totally open about it, however I never had the chance acting on it. I found out more recently and covid isn't helping and also I kinda have a soft spot for lesbians and bisexual girls and I don't want to use them as an experiment I guess. Maybe one day I will try it out.
I was bi-curious back in my teens but always considered myself straight, I jumped past that stage years ago and now I'm proudly bisexual.
If you told 18-year-old me that in 10 years I would be not only intimate with but engaged to another woman I would've called you a perv and told you to take a hike.
I never have been and if you want the truth it disgusts me. But that's just my personal view.
It's not an uncommon one, you are always safe with my posts to express yourself, thank you :)
it is disgusting
I have no interest in females. Im only into men born men with a nice dick for dessert
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Don't be shy give it a try... is what I tell women that aren't quite sure. I've been bi-sexual 20+years and I love myself, my husband and my (ours) girlfriend with all my Soul.
Nice! :)
I have never been afraid to say it... however i am not bi-sexually curious more bi-romantically curious. The thought of having sex with a woman is not very appealing to me... urgh
Not really. I like "boy toys." I knew when I hit puberty that was who I was strongly interested in.
I believe most people are Bi curious, as for me, yes I have been sexually active with other women, and again for me, it was very pleasurably, both giving and receiving
I have never wanted to have a homosexual experience at all.
Same
I experimented a little when I was younger, but only properly with one guy and never again since, apart from a drunken snog at a party a few years later lol. I've been thinking about it more lately but I've never pursued it, I'd say I'm more into women.
Totally bi, and out as bi, and have been with multiple men and women
Less than 1% of men are legitimately gay. Maybe 50% of all women are gay. But you shouldn't assume a large number of men are gay like this question does. That's why almost all the men answered A. Most men are not gay whatsoever, even if you're implying (and may be right) that most women are gay.
Honestly, I strongly dislike that so many women out there hate men and would rather be with women. But if so many women are gay, they should at least be honest about it. I hate the ones who aren't honest about their feelings of being with women and instead use and abuse men and trick them into thinking they could actually ever like them. They like the financial and physical security of men, but their hearts and private parts all belong to women, and I hate that deception and emotional abuse towards men that so many gay women willfully do nowadays.
If they are gay and don't abuse men however (like this question is implying, although I don't fully buy it), then I have no problem with women being queer and choosing to spend their life devoted to other women. Just be open and honest about it and stop hurting heterosexuals in the process.
I don't know. But I was bi curious when i was 15-16 years old. I am sexually attracted to males so I don't know because I never experienced it with the females.
I'm straight but I have a secret wish. I hope that when I die I get to come back as a woman. Weird, but true.
Meh, maybe it's schizophrenia talking, or maybe I'm onto something.
why do you want to be a woman
Yes I'm really not and never will be it's just not for me,,, but I would like to become a lesbian ,,
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