Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I don't think this is a strange topic to discuss here.
But it really has me wondering, with all these relationship titles and issues with consent etc etc.
wouldn't it be easier to just say you just want sex?
Or is that just too upfront?
There's no wires being crossed, no decoding.
Do you think this question comes across differently depending on the gender asking?
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Are you confident enough to ask someone outright for sex?
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What Girls & Guys Said
24 65I think it’s better received if the girl bluntly asks for sex. Guys are already looked down on for being so into sex, so it’s a bigger risk and potentially offensive. If a girl asks even if the guy said no he would most likely do it gently. I do think it is best to just state what you want.
Definetly not
Is there any particular reason for this?
Might be the culture I am coming from, pretty common not to ask like that, I wish though I can ask outright
That's fair enough I think in an ideal world everything would be as straight forward as that. There'd be less heartbreak. But obviously that isn't accepted and that's why I suppose people develop the terms Netflix and chill. Although I can't imagine after the first time there's much Netflix if it was actually good unless the series really is something you just can't stop watching
Have you been asked outright? If so how did it felt?
Well I was seeing a guy from my work and I called him after we went on a date. Anyways it turned out he was with friends, I told him we could speak another time but he stopped me and said. Well what do you want? Did you want me to come over or something? No this wasn't the case I actually just wanted to see how his day was. We didn't talk after that. Some months later I bumped into him with his ex. I was clearly just a rebound.
I got married with my rebound and I was her rebound too. Most miserable years of my life.
Oh dear
You seems smarter than me 🙂
What makes you say that?
You already seen the guy with his ex. What are you suggesting? You're not smarter than me 🙂
Ex was not even ready to accept rebound theory, you know rebound is a thing, don't you?
I have no idea. I just didn't like his tone. He clearly didn't want anything serious with me and I was wasting my time. Our situations were different, you married her. Doesn't make me smarter. Just assessed the situation based upon what I was being presented with.
I'd like to, but really haven't. So I guess I'm not that brave
Yes, I am confident of having sex of a woman is willing
Yes I’ve literally done this and gotten laid from it
Sure if we click though I tend to be passive aggressive. I got little extra cautious. I don't know how she would react.
I want sex lol
Not at all, at least not the first time.
The other person would have to ask me.
I'm a gentleman enough not to offend :)
yeah, couldn't do it.
Depends on the setting, sometimes yes
yes i confidemnt
Depends on the girl. If I am out of town, absolutely.
Yes i can ask ,, but using some different words
Like?
Like , hey do you wanna be mom of my baby ? Likewise 😊
Yes I would
I'm not sure about it.
Yes it took a long time for me just to ask for sex.
I would now
Never going to turn down a offering that close to a womans love
It could just be a night of love an hour just enough to feel loved
Yes! Last time we were walking in Walmart and I lifted my skirt showing my azz and he shoved himself inside me really hard and no one was around us.
Another time we walked at the mall washrooms and pulled him in to the stall and forced him to put his dcik in my mouth 👄
Guys seem to like it 😈
Absolutely no.
Depends on how you met and how the conversation was going