Are you ever scared or anxious to open up your dm's?

Question

When you receive a dm on here how do you feel before you open it?

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

I am very particular about my dm box. Its like my personal space. I always say GaG posts is like sitting out on your front porch watching people go by. Sometimes people wave (give you a like on your responses) Sometimes people come up to the steps to talk (leaving a brief comment) Other times they climb right up onto your porch and sit themselves somewhere (more in depth conversation on a post reply)

Now a DM is like ringing your door bell and hoping to be let in. Some people you greet at the door and you just chat with them with your door slightly open. This is the feeling the waters stage in gag... Like at your home You're basically screening the person. Your watching out for those Jehovah witnesses (GaG political or righteous extremists) or your watching out for those door salesman (GaG people sexually solicitating/inquiring favors) or for those random social neighbors who just want to say hi (friendly GaG members just testing to see if you can hit it off or not as friends).

Some folks you may just not want around and you excuse yourself or plain out ignore the next time they come knocking. Others your ok chatting lightly with. Its like chatting with a neighbor while leaning against the door. Other folks you might hit it off with and before you know it you are letting them into your living room. These are the GaG folks you start having intense long conversation with.

Most of the time I guard my personal space. I screen intensely. If a GaG member comes in strong and overly sexual I most likely ignore it or respond very lightly depending on the level of sexuality. If its a legitimate concern and a follow up brief conversation to a post im tolerant but if they're coming at me in hopes I'll get them off they are going to be left looking at an unresponsive screen.

there's are few Gag folks I chill briefly with in what I call leaning against the door just relaxing 😎.

But Honestly I rarely let any GaG members into my "living room"... As in intense long on going conversations.

I'm just a guarded person. Sometimes people are a little confused by my bubbly outgoing personality while out in the open in posts only to find a closed reserved person in DM. I dont want to lead anyone on. I have received my share of compliments in my dms. I am flattered and appreciate them I just never want to lead anyone on and hurt anyone. So I avoid any kind of possible flirtatious conversation in private. I think floating in private is just wrong that's something reserved for people you're truly interested in

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Nope, If a DM has a link in it... yeah that makes me nervous.  Usually though, I have a few hundred DM's per day so its pretty normal for me and I don't get anxious at all.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Well thankfully hardly anyone ever bothers me on here so no, I don't get scared or anxious- More like annoyed, lol. I'm so freaking antisocial at times

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I don't really feel scared or anxious.

At most I feel annoyed. At best I enjoy the talks.

But honestly only 3 DMs in my entire time of being here have been worth a chat. Everything else is cishet men sending "hi" or immediately jumping into sex talk.

IAteTwoFullHams · Answer

I just came in from Reddit, so every time I see a DM I assume it's telling me my account has been banned. I got one of those from Reddit, like, weekly.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

It depends entirely on who it is! If it’s someone who I know and like, I’m fine. But if it’s a new person, I’ve never chatted with, I’m just waiting for when is he going to get sexual with his conversation… and get blocked? It usually it takes about 2 minutes.

Jacobbbb · Answer

I'm a social person so I welcome anyone in my dms. I enjoy making connections with people online and having conversations with them

petitedollbabee · Answer

Only when there’s a message coming from someone I don’t talk to often, or if it’s coming from someone that I don’t have a good history with.

menina · Answer

I only allow dm's from followers so I don't get anxious.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Really depends on who it’s from. Some I know what it’s going to be. Sending a Demi photos of boobs is just meh lol. admittedly I’ve avoided all DM’s for a few weeks now.

Sour-rose · Answer

If it's my best friend that I tell him he's a fukin' wanka and i'm going to shoot him in apex tonight, not scared. The worse he can do is shoot me or disgust me. If it's that client that's still asking have I fished that video of me dropping ass then ripping it in a skirt, I get nervous for sure.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Lol I've been here on and off for 7 years. Nothing surprises me anymore

Pinay_ako · Answer

Scared? Nervous? Why?

SkyCastle90 · Answer

It's more like, "What's it going to be this time?" Most of my DMs come from men either trying to get me on whatsapp, trying to know what I look like, or learn my sexual interest. It's weird.

Apple1996 · Answer

Oh always never know what's gonna be in there

AnnaTumbles · Answer

i do get a few dms every single day , but i ignore most of them as a lot of them start getting too sexual

bubblegunnn · Answer

Always excited lol

Sandy2001petite · Answer

I get excited, isn’t that why we’re on this. I like feedback and opinions are there's. If you don’t care for dms you don’t have to be bothered with them. It’s up to you that’s just my opinion. I like k men to be interested by what my answers are and like some of theirs too.