I'm a dominant, but not an especially sadistic one - for the most part, giving her pain doesn't get me off, but if a girl enjoys pain, then giving it to her and HER ENJOYMENT OF IT can turn me on.
The one real exception to that is that I really enjoy giving bare-handed spankings - something I started almost by accident in high school and have continued to do ever since. The good news is that lots of girls seem to love it.
Mostly, though, I'm into BEING IN CONTROL - especially of HER pleasure. I enjoy knowing that I can make her orgasm almost at will - and that SHE knows it too - and so I can tease her and draw it out and make her beg for it, or I can make them cum hard and fast so that she doesn't think she can handle any more (and then I keep going, proving her wrong).
As for the list:
1. Choking & Slapping - sure, if she likes it, I'm all good.
2. Pulling hair - always
3. Cum Facials - definitely
4. Post orgasmic torture - I'm not sure exactly what this means to you, but I'm sure some things I do/have done would qualify.
5. Name calling (i. e. being called a dirty, slut whore... etc. - definitely!
6. Pain - again, it really depends on whether she likes it and gets off on it or not. I don't enjoy giving pain to girls who don't like it - only to girls who go wild when they get it. It's a turn-off to hurt someone who doesn't want to be hurt, or in a way they don't want to be hurt.
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I am submissive to men, but sometimes I like being dominant too.
1. I love to be choked in doggy or missionary. I love to choke my guy in cow girl position.
I like being slapped on my face. Sometimes I slap back too. I really like spanking during doggy.
2. I sometimes like my hair pulled in doggy. I pull my partners hair too.
3. I've only allowed my partner to cum on my face once. It's because I can't be bothered to get up and clean myself. Usually want a hug or cuddle after sex.
4. I love orgasmic torture it gives me intense orgasms.
5. I like being humiliated sometimes, via name calling.
6. I don't like pain.
If I was with a woman I would like to be dominant and I'd do all the 6 things to her.
Lol :-)
I'm submissive - but this doesn't mean I'm a pushover who doesn't say or know what I want.
1. Choking & Slapping - yes to choking, no to slapping unless it's my ass or thighs. Just not my face.
2. Pulling hair - definitely, very hard.
3. Cum facials - never tried it but willing to.
4. Post orgasmic torture - this depends on what you mean. I'm kinda iffy about it.
5. Name calling - in moderation.
6. Pain - I have a high tolerance for pain but don't like anything extreme. I'm somewhat on the very light side of the scale when it comes to mixing pleasure with pain.
I think I'm more of a switch. I like either role. Though I tend toward the softer side -- I wouldn't enjoy choking, and the others? Only in moderation, (being lightly tapped, rather than slapped- flogged rather than beaten - all of it mixed with teasing/pleasure) likewise that is the kind of D I would be
Im very submissive to my husband but you list sounds like domestic abuse, id be more likely to great my man at the door when he comes home from work with a martini and with his dinner in the oven wearing nothing but a baby doll nightie for a romantic evening rather than any of that.
Aw that's super cute!
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I'm a dom
1. Nope
2. <3 Gentle
3. <3 Receiving
4. <3
5. Never
6. No
1. choking is fine, but no slapping.
2. hell yeah, when going deep..
3. best way to end the game.
4. no idea.. never done that
5. I don't like that.
6. amount of pain increase with increase in size... so who wouldn't love to get more and more pain... 😋
Dom, I'm okay giving 1-6, a particular love of 5 and 6
I'm a sub.
1. Love it
2. Love it
3. Not my thing
4. Love it
5. Meh
6. Love it
Dom.
1. Not at all
2. Not at all
3. If I do it
4. If I torture them
5. Not at all
6. Not much into giving that.
My girlfriend is 110% submissive. It's difficult sometimes impossible to get her to say something other than "It's up to you".
1. Slapping yes. Haven't tried choking but I don't think she likes it.
2. She has almost no feeling and loves her hair being pulled.
3. Anywhere but the face.
4. Pre, sure. Post, not a fan
5. She knows I hate it so we don't go there.
6. Sometimes, it depends on where and how much.
Eww. You're deviant
switch
I'm a switcher.
None of those options, my thing is tickling :-P
both
More a dom!!
Hey mind texting me?
I'm a sub
1. Love it
2. Love it
3. Love it.
4. I don't think so
5. Love it
6. Don't mind it
I have tried to entertain the idea of being a sub but I always end up being dom one way or the other. I can't see myself ever being a sub.
Being a sub is just so... boring. Dom is far more entertaining.
lol. I think most girls are sub. statistically
I can be both.
Love to see your Dom side Sara
both not, I respect women... even if she asks for things like that, I deny the most... I handle my lady like a gentleman, works good for me
I like. both, but I rather be submissive unless the girl wants me to be dominant,
Can be both according to mood, just feel like experimenting in bed
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