Boyfriend asked if his friend can have sex with me?

My boyfriend of 10 years just asked me if his friend can fuck me. What does that mean? I feel disgusted that he would even ask me that? I’m starting to question if I should even be in this relationship.
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  • Sounds like he has a cuckold fantasy he's wanting to try out.

    Maybe he just wants to see you being pleasured from a distance without his physical involvement so he can visually appreciate the experience. If that is the case maybe seeing you with a toy, a fucking machine or just an update inflatable love doll will do things for him!

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  • It possibly is a fantasy he always had and he never had the courage to tell you before, but that doesn't mean you should feel pressured to accept this. If you find it offensive to your person talk to him directly and tell him how you feel.
    You could also tell him that you wouldn't let his friend fuck you, unless he lets him fuck him first. It would be funny to see his reaction to this...

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  • That is not on. He should never ask that. It is like he could be asking you to be a prostitute, maybe without payment, but there is a sting somewhere.

  • maybe he’s testing you or he probably has some type of kink like other people said

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  • Not okay!

  • Many years invested and 2 kids. Don't know what to suggest, but he is dead wrong doing that to you!

    • He hasn't done anything besides ask.

    • @slatyb She has been in a 10 year relationship with him, and obviously from her reaction it is completely monogamous. And it should be clear to him after all that time that she would be offended by that "ask". Like I said, he is dead wrong doing that!

  • Leave him.

  • I don't understand it.
    When I love a woman I do everything I can to avoid her fucking my friends. I don't even bring guys around.

  • Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

  • It seems pretty obvious what it means. Maybe you shouldn't be in this relationship. It seems you and your partner have cherry different ideas about sex.

  • Unless you discussed it, and agreed with it, dump him

  • I'm sorry this boyfriend of 10 years would say this to you, It's a shame to think a guy could stoop this low and yes you deserve a better guy and this is so wrong

  • There would be no doubt in my mind that I should end this relationship.

  • Strange guy

  • It's a guy thing...

    Hunters share the hunt..

    If you aren't okay with it..

    Just tell at him "NO, and if he still insisted that, than its end of the relationship."

    He has right to ask it..
    You have right to politely decline it..

    Don't worry he will not leave the relationship just because if you say no..
    He is still slave to your pussy..

  • He views you as a sex toy, a piece of property, you should pack your stuff and leave.

  • Probably someone he wants to fuck. So if he lets you do someone first he can better cheat without feeling guilty about it

  • Kick him in the balls really really hard and turn and walked away and don't look back.

  • Yikes, he deserves to be dumped for that.

  • That's not right. To me, it shows how little he values you. I'd get rid

  • Some couples have a relationship like this and it work's just fine because everyone knows and there isn't any cheating going on. Some guy's enjoy watching and it gets them off. Your situation is different you have no desire to be that way and you need to make that clear and your boyfriend needs to except that and if he doesn't you need to move on

  • Dump him. He doesn't care nor love you.

  • You’re a grown woman, allegedly. You know what it means.

  • honestly thats really weird. why tho does he want his friend to fuck u?

    • @Asker what u gonna do now?

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