Guys, Boyfriend isn't turned on by my biggest kink?
lanadelrey25Guru
He said the name "daddy" doesn't really excite him and it's my biggest turn onEnding the relationship isn't an option by the way so doesn't even suggest it
You know it's hard to find a woman who has kinks and will open up I actually love trying to get a woman to let go and open up and I will try my hardest to make her have as many ORGASMS and the best one she has ever had. I'm a giver and a woman always cums first
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GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
+1 y
I like being called "Daddy" and I have to admit to some female online friends called me Daddy but seriously it was nothing perverted about it but they chose to call me Daddy now I've dated younger women in real life but none of them called me Daddy, maybe I should have asked them? I say try to ease him into it
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bowenwMaster
+1 y
I believe it is important that couples respect each other's likes and dislikes for a relationship to last. If everything else is wonderful I think you should learn to live with not calling him Daddy. Is there something else you can call him that turns you on nearly as much as 'Daddy'? What about calling him 'Daddy' but in a different language, or try things like 'Master', 'Mister', 'Studly', 'Mr. Big', etc?
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HawkPerceptionYoda
+1 y
I don't think anything is written in stone. I think there's always a way to ease someone into things. That man is lucky as hell. I love it when a girl says daddy lol. He can definitely change his mind on that. You just need to try to get him being more dominant and into roleplay a little.
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TheSpaceGnomeGuru
+1 y
Sounds like daddy issues, most men don't want to be a surrogate father to their girlfriend/wife.
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JC103Guru
+1 y
What about “Hokage”
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lanadelrey25
+1 y
haha, no
JC103
+1 y
Senpai?
lanadelrey25
+1 y
I'm stuck on daddy
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JC103
+1 y
Does he mind it?
lanadelrey25
+1 y
he's kind of neutral leaning towards no. He said it makes him feel old, which he is old and plenty of young guys get called daddy so I'm confused
JC103
+1 y
How old is he? Just say “you’re not old, you’re just experienced”
lanadelrey25
+1 y
he's 49 lmao
JC103
+1 y
And you’re 17?
lanadelrey25
+1 y
why? Are you about to lecture me or tell me something I've heard a hundred times before? I turn 18 in less than 2 months.
JC103
+1 y
🤷🏽♂️ I believe in a life of oh wells than what ifs. I’m currently with someone that’s much younger than I am. I say you still call him daddy, I’m sure he’ll come around. If he doesn’t, I’m sure you can be a bit more of a brat until than lol
lanadelrey25
+1 y
haha ok good idea
JC103
+1 y
Good girl
genericname85Master
+1 y
well not everything each partner loves must be loved by the other. he doesn't need to be into it. he can still do it for you. i mean that doesn't strike me as "too much to ask", even though i also do not have this fetish.
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genericname85
+1 y
i mean i remember being with a girl who loved being choked and i'm totally not into it. it's demeaning and borderline abusive to me but i still did that for her, cause i knew how much that turned her on.
jb12358Xper 7
+1 y
He should get over it and say it if it turns you on imho
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convo_king89Yoda
+1 y
find something he likes and work in into your kink, or take turns
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AydenHazorYoda
+1 y
That's something you'll need to with out between you. Whether he learns to live with it or you don't call him it to worse him, you'll eventually come to an agreement or compromise
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(42)You know it's hard to find a woman who has kinks and will open up I actually love trying to get a woman to let go and open up and I will try my hardest to make her have as many ORGASMS and the best one she has ever had. I'm a giver and a woman always cums first
I like being called "Daddy" and I have to admit to some female online friends called me Daddy but seriously it was nothing perverted about it but they chose to call me Daddy
now I've dated younger women in real life but none of them called me Daddy, maybe I should have asked them? I say try to ease him into it
I believe it is important that couples respect each other's likes and dislikes for a relationship to last. If everything else is wonderful I think you should learn to live with not calling him Daddy. Is there something else you can call him that turns you on nearly as much as 'Daddy'? What about calling him 'Daddy' but in a different language, or try things like 'Master', 'Mister', 'Studly', 'Mr. Big', etc?
I don't think anything is written in stone. I think there's always a way to ease someone into things. That man is lucky as hell. I love it when a girl says daddy lol. He can definitely change his mind on that. You just need to try to get him being more dominant and into roleplay a little.
Sounds like daddy issues, most men don't want to be a surrogate father to their girlfriend/wife.
What about “Hokage”
haha, no
Senpai?
I'm stuck on daddy
Does he mind it?
he's kind of neutral leaning towards no. He said it makes him feel old, which he is old and plenty of young guys get called daddy so I'm confused
How old is he? Just say “you’re not old, you’re just experienced”
he's 49 lmao
And you’re 17?
why? Are you about to lecture me or tell me something I've heard a hundred times before? I turn 18 in less than 2 months.
🤷🏽♂️ I believe in a life of oh wells than what ifs. I’m currently with someone that’s much younger than I am. I say you still call him daddy, I’m sure he’ll come around. If he doesn’t, I’m sure you can be a bit more of a brat until than lol
haha ok good idea
Good girl
well not everything each partner loves must be loved by the other. he doesn't need to be into it. he can still do it for you. i mean that doesn't strike me as "too much to ask", even though i also do not have this fetish.
i mean i remember being with a girl who loved being choked and i'm totally not into it. it's demeaning and borderline abusive to me but i still did that for her, cause i knew how much that turned her on.
He should get over it and say it if it turns you on imho
find something he likes and work in into your kink, or take turns
That's something you'll need to with out between you. Whether he learns to live with it or you don't call him it to worse him, you'll eventually come to an agreement or compromise