Boyfriend of four years went soft during sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years and are both twenty one. My boyfriend has a high sex drive and seems to become aroused by me from the smallest touch even if it is not sexual. The other day we must've had sex about four times, but the last time we had sex I noticed he became soft. He had asked to be gagged, hands tied together and blindfolded which I did. I rode him a few times and got on all fours so he could do a bit of the work. Then I tried to ride him, but his penis wouldn't go in so I looked and his penis just shrivelled up and went soft. I started stroking it, then it became a little harder, so I took his mask off. When I did he looked at me, then his penis became super hard again and even a bit of precum came out? We must've been having sex for about an hour and half by that point foreplay included. This has never happened before, so it has got me worried. Sometimes I notice his penis does go softer sometimes from being super hard, but not to the point it can't go in. He didn't notice his penis going soft either and when he took his mask off he told me how good it felt? Does anyone know why this may have happened?

[summiter]

Stuff happens during and after sex. It sounds like you still have a great sex life. How often do you have sex? Do you think he maybe jerked off before sex with you? 4 rounds may cause a guy to go soft it is no big deal.

Did he have anything to say about it?

[Asker]

I only stay over night like once every two weeks, but I know he masturbates pretty much everyday He tells me he thinks about the stuff he wants to do to me. He was wearing a chastity cage when I arrived (his choice) so he was already hard. When I took his blindfold off and looked at me he went hard instantly even precummed a little. When I said he went soft he had no idea and said the sex felt great.

[exitseven]

It happens. If it becomes a regular thing maybe a trip to a urologist is in order.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[rcljr]

He hit his limit, each time he has an orgasm his refractory period will get longer and longer until his Willy finally says “ Nope, I’m done”

[Jamie05rhs]

His penis got hard again when he looked at you? Girl, you should NOT be worried! Everything is fine!! 😃

[KrakenAttackin]

He's probably really gay.

[Asker]

Probably

[KrakenAttackin]

That was a joke.

[Asker]

I went along with your joke

[KrakenAttackin]

Ha! Ok, makes sense.

[In_Trance]

dozens of reasons why this happens. you need to talk it through with him and probably seek some professional help

[Pterodon]

Stop overthinking

[Asker]

I probably needed to hear that, thank you

[Luckycharms12]

You are over thinking had sex 3 times probably tired

[OnTheLevel]

Nice flex

[Jamie05rhs]

You caught that, too? Lol

[Yellovv]

Normal for 4 times not getting hard, because men not same like women..

[MasterKS]

too much sex at that time.

[NibirX]

Normal... make him don't watching porn for 15 days... then do sex instead of porn...

[dexzuz1]

Not attracted to you like before.

[Anonymous]

My guess is you and him were high school sweethearts

[Asker]

College sweethearts. I was 17 when we started dating

[Opinion Owner]

I assume your boyfriend was the one who pursued you or asked you out

[Anonymous]

take a break for a few days

[Anonymous]

You probably wore him out after the third time.

[Anonymous]

Round 4? Yeah I mean thats a lot of sex, cock don’t stay hard forever

[Asker]

It was within 10hrs, not like back to back.

[Opinion Owner]

Each time a dude cums his dick is less likely to get as hard till the next day

[Asker]

Oh really? okay thank you