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Boyfriend's female friend is flirting with him. What do I do?

About a year before meeting me my guy had feelings for one of his female friends. She rejected him, but now that we are dating and things are starting to get serious, suddenly she is all over him. She makes a point to always sit next to him, laughs at all of his jokes and even touches him casually. It just looks pathetic, but I'm about ready to bite her head off.
My boyfriend admits that she has been acting weird around him lately, but he thinks I'm overreacting.
Do you think it's possible to resolve this situation without getting into a fight with her and possibly my boyfriend? What would you do?
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  • Ohhh, yes. The classic "you are valuable now because you are dating someone" bitch. Love her.

    You let it be known to your boyfriend that you don't like her and you feel there is no respect she has for ya'lls relationship.

    He should refuse all contact from her.

    I don't know if they are coworkers or something to where you see her taking on these many oppurtunities, but all things facebook and messaging should be stopped. Even cutesy little tags.

    Keep in mind, you are only allowed a maximum of one quarantined bitch.

  • ugh, sounds like friend here needs to go.

    thing is, you can't tell your guy to just stop talking to her; if you do that, you're telling him what to be secretive about. instead, try, "if i stayed in touch with a guy i knew was into me, how would that make you feel?"

    you can also go the other way and try making friends with her. if she comes to like and respect you, perhaps she'll back off and away from your man.

    • This is really the best advice.

  • Given that he used to have feelings for her, and she is now openly interested in him with no regard for his relationship with you, I think it would be reasonable for you to ask him to cut her off. At the very least, he should be willing to put his foot down and tell her to knock off the flirty behavior.

  • Speak up. Dont sit back and allow her to be all flirty and touchy on your boyfriend. She's testing limits and only flirting now because she sees he's taken and will no longer be chasing after her. Tell her she's had her chance but he's happily taken. Has he told her to back off at all?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Make him understand how do you feel about it. If still he doesn't react, or what's worse he pretends to be reacting but he's not, dump him. You deserve someone who genuinely looks after your well being. And by the way she's all over him cause she feels she may lose him cause she has someone else now, so she needs confirmation of him following her voice. No way I'd fall into that pit of shit, he either grows up or screw him.

  • She's only acting that way because he has a girlfriend now. Guys with girlfriends are more attractive than those without. Or else she's just a total bitch that wants to see if she can steal him away from you and then dump him out of boredom. Make sure your boyfriend knows this. He should probably eliminate her from his life altogether.

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  • No. She's a hoe who just wants attention. She's being catty. Throw it back in her face.

  • Text that bitch and tell her she had her chances. Haha jk. But seriously, though. Text her and say you feel uncomfortable about it and ask if she can "tone down" a little bit. Tell your boyfriend first so he knows you are going to do it.

  • you need to be a woman about this don't sit there and watch take things into your own hand let him know you don't like her flirty behavior and that if he doesn't put her in her place you walk

    • you need to draw a clear line between accapable and unacceptable behavior

  • Time to slap a bitch.

  • You don't wanna come across crazy to your man. Just trust inn him do things to make sure his interests are 100% with you. Fuck her, he's YOURS.

  • tell him your concerns and then just trust him

  • Women want what other women want.

  • Tell him how you feel about the situation, that's all you can do. If you trust him, you shouldn't need to worry about the situation, because it takes two to tango.

  • you do nothing. your boyfriend is a free human being. if he loves you, her flirting will be nothing but fooling around and if her flirting makes him want to leave you, then there´s no point in holding him. he has to naturally want to stay with you. you can´t force that.

    • You're right, but that doesn't mean it's fun to hang out with someone who is constantly trying to tear apart your relationship.

    • @samhradh_leannan yes. i mean you could tell your boyfriend that you´re really uncomfortable about it and that you wish he´d try to stop it. his reaction (like if he does it or not) will show you how much weigh your wish has for him and draw conclusions as to if you schould keep him around or not.

  • Bite her freaking head out !! Your boyfriend needs to let her know that he's with you!!

  • Tell him to stop talking to her

  • From a married man I have had more than a few advancements including today. My wife is number one.

  • apparently she's a b***, but of you want to clear things out you should talk to her openly and maybe even say to her "you had your chance now leave us alone" but even if he goes with her that means he don't deserve you

  • talk.

  • gurl you need to put a stop to that! channel your tyler Perry's Madea and end this. You don't wanna be like Brandy and Monica singing 'The boy is mine'.

  • She sounds like she's getting jealous, she knew she had a chance with him and now she's having second thoughts. I would tell your boyfriend to stay away from her or even distance himself away from her. Only bad things turn out of those things. Be careful! And keep me updated :)

  • The best option is to jump on her and start pounding her face saying, "Stay away from my man you home wrecking bitch!"
    I would respect that.
    She only wants him now that she can't have him. She will try to ruin your relationship over time whenever you two have disagreements and be manipulative, so it is better to confront her right now when you and your boyfriend are on the best of terms.

  • Fight that bitch

  • Talk to her about it. If she is your BFs friend she might have a lot in common with you and you two can become friends, assuming she cuts out the whole flirting thing. Otherwise, your boyfriend will have to choose which isn't always easy.

  • Nothing.

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