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Sexual Health Boyfriend wants me to do things that he’s seen in p*rn, is that normal?
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My boyfriend wants to do things he’s seen girls do in porn and I’ve told him I’m not too comfortable with certain things, is it normal for a guy to be like this or is he fixated with porn too much?
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21 50That is normal for a guy to want to try things that turn him on in porn within reason. You should try to explain to him that the fictitious world of porn, where women gladly do anything, is far different than reality. If you are willing to try some new things, let him know you want to please him but expect him to stop if you are not comfortable. A good guy will respect your wishes and not pressure you. If things you are not comfortable with are a deal breaker for him he should find a new girlfriend.
Do it and enjoy with him. Doesn’t matter porn or not as long as you two are open about your sexual relationship.
Sounds pretty normal to me.
Unless it is really out there, pain and blood stuff, most porn stuff is ok.
It's good to be open to try new things.
Curiosity is normal, as it wanting to try things with your partner... however, he should respect your choices too if you don't feel like doing something. Communication is key so talk honestly about the things you're willing to try with him, and if something doesn't make you feel good.
Just do it.
He wants to try new things
We haven’t been together that long, we don’t get to see each other because it’s kinda a long distance thing sometimes so I guess he’s getting bored already haha
its normal that they fantasize about it but u have to be really ready for what he wanted to do... else u can deny it
I think it's normal
What kind of things? And why don't you want to do them?
Guys often desire their gfs to play similar role in sex. Since porn stats are usually very skilled and experts, and also that it is earning, they can perform sometimes risky roles. Gfs/wives may not like some things to do. Better to respect their wishes if they are not comfortable.
He likely watches too much porn, but yes, I do think its normal. But its clear you don't like it, so make sure he knows that.
if you're not willing to do that then stay single
that is why many guys in relationships/married watch porn , they have unusual kinks (
their kinks can be really weird , that is why they hesitate to talk about it to their so
Only if you both agree on it but its your body so choose whats right for you
We learn about sex from porn.
In what universe does anyone learn anything from porn?
@lanadelrey25 The sex acts are real. That means they are possible. If they look hot or look likecyhwyvfeel good, we want to see if the person we're with can do them. Also, I learned how to lick pussy from watching porn on it. There were step by step instructions with a girl who was getting it done to her.
It's normal for him to want it, but also normal for you to decline, lol.
Well... He wants to experiment. I don't see anything wrong with that.
Its normal but only do what your comfortable doing
Not bad
It's not normal and you make sure he's clear you aren't doing it.