Boyfriend won’t eat pussy?

We finally had that talk and he said he “just can’t do it”. I suck his dick all the time and enjoy doing it. After the refused to eat my pussy I stopped sucking his dick and he didn’t mind. He accepted it and wasn’t being selfish or immature about it. He grabbed me and hugged me and said “he’ll make it up to me”. I then told him I wanted to “end things” and he got extremely upset and his eyes started testing up and he refused to break up. At this point I gotta think about whether it’s something I can live with going forward since he has said he will NOT do it. Do you think it’s a valid reason to break up with someone? Is he being selfish? I don’t know what to think because what we have is real but he just won’t go down on me?
Now before anyone says that I’m not clean down there. He said it’s not about me but it’s something he has never done and doesn’t feel comfortable doing. Your take?
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  • If he's not comfortable doing it there's nothing wrong with that but if it's something you need to be happy in your relationship then you need to leave him and find someone who will go down on you

  • 😉👍👍

  • Some men just don't like doing that.

  • To each their own. I dont see what's unappealing about it.

  • If you can live with never being eaten out again I guess stay with him, but if not and you know you will not be happy, then move on because you will only end up apart or cheating eventually anyway.

  • I'll eat your pussy

  • I definitely understand why this would be infuriating

  • Is he willing to work on this conflict? At one time, all of us were inexperienced in sex and particularly in oral sex. You could work into it gradually, starting with him just kissing you around but not on the pussy, then licking around but on the pussy. then lightly kissing you on the pussy, etc.

  • Some guys just dont like it, it may not be because you aren't clean but i know for me i hate bjs but love eating girls out