You used each other. You met for sex and had sex. You both got what you wanted.
Neither one of you were being responsible in how you went about it. He's gone now, and should stay gone. You don't have any control over him, but you do have control over yourself and your actions.
This guy has obviously been having sex with others without protection. You were on the pill. But this guy is also a walking STD dispenser.
You can't do anything about him, but you need to up your own game a little.
okay girl one thing random dateapp match use a fucking condom or no sex please educate yourself you even heard him say he always cums inside so that means he never uses a condom not using condoms means he is fucking stupid has no respect for himself and more importantly for you
and since he is "hot"as you said most likely he has loads of women he has fucked so wanna guess if any of them had anything🤔I would delete and move on and start demanding use of condoms worst thing a one night stand can tell me is its okay we dont have to use a condom😂I mean do you say that to all of the guys
Yeah they do. A lot of guys, if you don’t specifically tell them to pull out, assume it’s ok to cum inside. If you’re not using a condom and you don’t say anything, he’s going to assume you’re good with it. Whether or not he used you, I don’t know. Maybe he did or maybe he’s into you. It’s hard to tell when you have sex right away and haven’t had time to really evaluate him or his motives.
you dont/didn't know him that well but had sex with him on a first date? hence your problem. he treated you like he wanted to because there seems to be no real boundaries with either of you and now you aren't sure, whats done is done, he already did what he wanted. he was wrong but you guys should have talked about it beforehand, hard just to blame him, both of you consented to having sex
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Wait, wait, you consented to bare sex willingly and now you’re angry he came inside you w/o asking? I agree that he should have discussed it with you before doing that but if you told him you were on the pill and that you were fine with going bare it’s not to weird either for him to assume you’re OK too with the coming inside. Sorry, communication and shared responsibility here…
Cuming inside you is quite an assumption. It's always better to ask the lady what she wants. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, but make any restrictions clear.
If you have sex on a first date with someone you really don't know, you should expect to be disrespected quite often.
this happens a lot
Not at all. It is something that you should talk about ahead of time. I think it is disrespectful if he cums inside you without briefly talking about it before. He could have an STD you know.
You had sex and all was fine. (Your words) Only after he came inside you did you feel used?
I'm sorry but you have to share some of the responsibility for that. Those things should have been spoken about before you let him enter you.
So let me get this straight he went on a date with him. Took him home allowed him to fuck you without a condom and never once said dont cum in me... and are now mad he came in you without asking? And are asking if he used you? Seems to me you used him!
You are the one who allowed him to have sex with you without a condom. It's good that you are on the pill. Forget about withdrawal as a means of birth control. Use condoms with partners when you don't know for certain that they are healthy (no STDs).
Some guys do this. If you aren't comfortable with it, insist that he wear a condom (always a good idea because of STDs).
A guy that presumes too much, or you assume too much? Well, to put it graphically, before that spongy, purple, penis head went through your lovely, lubricated, labia, you should have had an understanding about whether he should shoot his wad in you, wear a rubber, or maybe pull out and shoot on your stomach?
As you can tell, I love being graphic, but that is the facts in a 'nut shell"
Did you not specify before hand if he could? Or insist on condom?
I wouldn't say its normal but there are enough guys around who will take advantage if not told not to. Not the best thing if having casual hook ups, lots of diseases out there
It's a bumble-date and you have sex on the first date. Yes, of course he did.
sounds like he knew what he was doing when he cummed in you , if u weren't on a pill
also I think that's selfish because he should have asked u no one wants a risk
if it were me I would have asked them to put on a condom or were they gonna wear one
Many do, I usually ask if it's safe to cum inside in the moment if it got down to it and they always say yes. If you had a different expectation you can always speak up, if you prefer a condom or pull out, or even revoke consent.
Sounds like a typical naive young man.
If you weren’t on the pill you would have become a typical stereotype of a young single mother that her baby daddy is a dense headed loose cannon
So this happens lots?
When men are young, we’re stupid. I did the same shit
Our ballsacks take control of our actions. And we do, without thinking of the consequences. Fortunately for me, and this guy when it comes to you and him. The girl was on BC
Well if you on the pill but dont want us to cum in you you should keep the pill info to yourself, also talk about it before hand and establish a boundary. You can't really trust men when it comes to matters of birth control. I don't think he used you, at least no more than you used him.
what's the issue with finishing inside? i mean you're on the pill but if you have sex with someone who doesn't even ask and doesn't put on a rubber, i'm sorry to say but you're a big part of the problem. you can always opt out of having sex with people that are so unresponsible. so if you choose to still have sex with them, you usued them the same way they used you.
Yes, lots of guys do that and yes, you most likely did get used. I hope you're on birth control, but in the fuck did you let him cum inside you.
No he was on top and just help me like tight when he cum so I couldn't push him off
Most guys I think ask where she wants him to finish, at least I always did.
It’s normal to some. I wouldn’t say he used you. I just finished in a girl that I asked if it was ok and I swore she said yeah. She didn’t say yeah. Lol. Plan b! Lmao
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