Could you date someone who was confident in most areas but insecure about their sexual performance specifically?

Got that? so they are overall confident personality wise but when it comes to sex they feel a bit insecure about their performance.

Could you date someone who was confident in most areas but insecure about their sexual performance specifically?

could you date someone like this?

Sure. sounds like we could work things out
Vote A
No i need a confident person in the bedroom too or i can't do it
Vote B
It depends on how insecure they are about it
Vote C
I'm insecure about that too so i wouldn't mind
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  • Absolutely, if I really liked her , I would have no problem helping her feel relaxed and I would do my best to make her feel comfortable in bed, I would do my best to break her free from whatever is holding her back. Sex usually it gets better with someone the longer you are with someone , when you both feel comfortable with each other sex gets better So your situation is actually a common thing that Guys’ and girls’ go through , so if you really like the person , you are best to be supportive and caring and do your best to break them free from whatever is holding them back. More than likely they will eventually break free and feel comfortable with you and you will be happy as hell that you did , because your sex life with them will more than likely will increase tremendously and you will have no complaints lol

  • i'm a man so a woman's confidence does not really do much for me but if she is too insecure to the degree of not letting me do my thing it might be a problem (even though to be honest it never did until now and i doubt it will ever be, i did insecure girls before actually they are a much easier catch as long as you know how to sweet talk your way into it if anything the outcomes are much sweeter than confident girls cause they are more responsive to praises and buttering up) also even though you might call me a jerk but insecurities are a great way to keep things your way insecurities are like open wounds and you know what they say, ''never bleed around a predator''

Most Helpful Girls

  • People are often insecure about things that in the end are not a big deal or they're not as bad as they think. Seems like the type of thing we could both evaluate and work it out.

  • I would date them, I am sure we could find a solution together.

    • Very nice of you

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  • Yeah I could. We all have insecurities.

  • Insecurity in the bedroom is a turn on! Of course I would date them!

  • It's not a deal breaker. We still can work things out.

    It could be interesting though, new experience lol

  • Sex isn't everything, why would i leave a perfect guy just because he isn't sexually confident

  • If they were insecure I would emphasize that this is what I love about them most because they make me look like a professional then I'd smack her on the ass and say what's for dinner. Only joking because my wife is watching me type this.

    • Lol.

  • Build them up, no big deal

  • Totally, easily solved by guiding her to what I enjoy. The best is always when she is completely open minded and wants to learn, because then she goes out of her way to learn what you enjoy. I'd take that over someone who insists her incompatible style is perfect any day.

  • Yeah because there is a lot more important things then sex. Sex should come later… If you wanna jump right into bed before your even officially a couple. There is something wrong with that.

    I don’t sleep around. I expect my partner to have the same values as I do. Otherwise, it’s probably just not meant to be.

  • Of course yes, sex is not everything in a relationship, you can always improve in this area, we all have insecurities, if I realised she was awkward, I would not leave her for that reason, I would find a solution.

  • Sure, we could work things out.

  • why not? i’m fine with that

  • Sure, but sounds like a rare combination.

  • I wouldn’t care, it would be kinda cute, actually.

  • I'd have no problem building her confidence

  • As long as he isn’t flirtatious and leaving me insecure outside the bedroom.

  • Why not? Just learn on the way.

  • Yes i would, None of us are perfect, it's normal to have insecurities

  • Yes, I will date her. Everyone has some strengths and weaknesses. We can find a solution for that.

  • There is no problem without a solution, don't worry