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2 mo

Coworker squeezed my boobs. How to behave from now on?

It was a matter of time. We have been flirting since August last year and our relationship, which is more like a situationship now, has sort of progressed ever since. He has shared many personal details, I did the same. We have been sharing meals, I have bought him food, he did the same for me. The behavior was very husband-wifey from both sides. We have been speaking for hours almost every day on the phone whenever i wasn't in the off... and I have noticed his constant desire to be around and to touch me. He never really crossed any line (except hugging me and massaging my shoulders) till yesterday evening. I have to admit I like him. and even might have developed deeper feelings for him (maybe it's wrong and unprofessional, but it is what it is).

We were in the office, I was teasing him as per usual, nothing extraordinary. The past few days he was very, very playful whenever there wasn't anyone else around. He used to squeeze my hand, my legs... tried reaching to look into my bosom... etc. I knew where this all is heading.

He started warning me that if I don't stop, something will happen. I didn't stop... maybe I should have, but I didn't.

So he put down his phone on the desk, got up from the chair and walked towards me. It was just the two of us there. I was sitting in my chair and didn't expect him to do anything more than squeezing my arm (like he always does). He grabbed my hands instead and squeezed my boobs. Tbh I kinda liked it and didn't pull away.

He did it 3 or 4 times in the next 30 minutes and after the third attempt I tried to push him away, cause whatever happened is far from professional and the office certainly wasn't the place. He said I have nothing to hide. I replied "fine, but I do".

Previously that day we talked about sex and he wanted to know my opinion about blow jobs. I have told him I'm not discussing this at work so when we get out, I will tell eventually.

So we went out and he asked me "now it's time for your response.

Updates:
2 mo
He kept on asking and I continued not responding, then he said "I take that as an "yes"... I noticed that he had a visible boner... We were at the parking lot and before he got into his car , he asked "will you preform one?". I said "to whom?"... he said "to me"... and "think about it". I got this ashamed look on my face and headed to my car. It's been almost 15 hour since that... he hasn't contacted me nor have I.
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  • Bruh you gotta be straight with yourself. If you like him then you should date him in my opinion. But both of you should put very strong restrictions about what you do at the workplace. To be in a relationship with someone you work with, you need to be extremely professional in my opinion

    • I agree... it wasn't the place for that stuff. The point is I'm at work on Monday and I don't know how to behave.

    • Just talk to him before Monday...

    • Do you think anything may come out of this or we will continue like nothing happened (I doubt that I'm capable of acting like it was no big deal, cause it was the opposite for me).

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Most Helpful Guy

  • 1. Are either of you married, living with a partner, or in a committed relationship?

    2. Do the two of you have a supervsor/subordinate relationship at work?

    3. Do you want to start a dating relationship with him? Just casual sex? Possble LTR?

Most Helpful Girl

  • The weekend is almost here so just invite him over to your place, head straight for the bedroom, lay down, spread your legs and let him fuck the living daylights out of you... Problem Solved... Simples.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Do you want him?

  • I was going to tell you to report him to HR but I see now it is a real relationship. You are smart to stay professional at work. He needs to respect that too

  • Sounds like the Teo of you are destined to eventually have sex together and it doesn't sound like either of you would mind thst happening.

  • Good guys know their limitations... This is not appropriate for me at least doesn't matter how much we are into eachother

  • You two need to get a room!

  • This is why coworkers should NOT DATE

    This would be considered workplace harassment. If I saw this, I would have reported it to HR, and gotten you both fired

  • Do you wanna bang him or not?

  • I don't know. My spidey-sense is tingling. Something's off here! Maybe he's gay.

  • Aand what were you expecting from him?

  • So r u trying to have a friends with benefits situation or an actual serious relationship with ur coworker?

    • I don't know what I'm trying to do, I wasn't the one who grabbed my own titts. I didn't dislike it though, but I was shocked that he did that in the office. I'm not into that kind of stuff tbh. But after all these months I'm not surprised that it happened.

    • So u want more to happen and u feel like he ghosted u?

    • So you think he ghosted me? It's hard to tell... maybe I will find out today, maybe on Monday. The thing is... this continued for long enough. I don't know if he is capable for a serious relationship. He is 37 and I'm 26. He never had any serious relationships (as far as I know), so I doubt he will change for me.

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  • Just invite him out clearly you like him and he likes you and if you feel he's going to far at work just talk to he about it and tell him how you feel

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