Dark but real - confession, ofcourse I'll get some hate but, for real? not one person agrees?

Question

I think rape and sexual abuse are overreacted to. It's almost just sex, maybe unexpected, making it wrong, but still, they're hyped. Could never say it out but, guess I can, here. Anyone else thinks so too?

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

It's nice to see someone so unafraid of controversy! Well, here's the thing: physically, it's just sex, true. But what is sex to you? How a person feels about something is very subjective, and how a person reacts to rape or sexual abuse is ultimately up to them. Now, the law is the law, and should come down hard and those who commit these crimes, but I don't think you're wrong in saying that we do a disservice to their victims by saying that they must always see themselves as forever tainted by their experience. When it comes to the victim's experience, there are degrees of consent- again, NOT FOR LEGAL PURPOSES. This is about how the  victim  feels. It shouldn't be up to us, as uninvolved bystanders, to tell someone how traumatized they are.

Samoht_Sirrom1 · Accepted Answer

In a fantasy situation "Roleplay" nothing wrong with it... However attacking someone and forcing them to do something against their will is where the problem lies.. Since in that case technically pedophilia is okay as well since it's basically "raping a child" which partially explains people being offended by the question. Or if it happened to them personally it leaves you feeling weak and defenseless and wondering if it could have been prevented or even if maybe it was something you said or did that caused it which is why it's traumatic to log of people.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not every rape is the same.. so just because you were raped and for you it was just unexpected sex that perhaps you didn’t want, doesn’t mean it’s like that for every single person that has been raped..

And if you’ve never been raped, then you just sound extra ridiculous staying on something you don’t even know about.. and like I said even if you did, not everyone is raped by the same person under the same circumstances.. so just shut up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yea, and u can get just pregnant or get just an STD with just sex.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

I was trying to come up with some clever reply, but I'm not gonna do that. No, it's not over reacted to. It's under reacted to. People like to act like being accused of rape or sexual assualt is a death sentence, but in reality most rapists never even see a courthouse, let alone prison time. They rarely even face serious consequences in their personal lives.
Meanwhile survivors have to deal with the trauma of an assault their entire lives. They are scrutinized, told they are lying, that they were asking for it, that it was their fault, etc. I've seen people who were raped 20 years ago break down crying thinking about it. I've seen survivors move from abusive relationship to abusive relationship because they just no longer have the ability to value or defend themselves. I've talked people through nightmares, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts all caused by sexual abuse or rape.
It's not just bad or unexpected sex. It's lifelong trauma.

jamesgoldman · Answer

No... I advocate openly for the death penalty with both crimes being on my list... would love that job I can be one sick puppy when I'm angry (acid feed through IV lines, inject caesium pellets and the good old.12 bore in the knees)

irrationally97 · Answer

Rape is a lot more than unexpected sex. Its exploitation of a person. Its violent, and can leave scars that may never heal. It's a serious issue that unfortunately affects so many people of both genders.

AmeerX · Answer

Why don't you try getting raped?

s2firestar · Answer

It is NOT unexpected sex. It is painful, damaging and often comes with injuries.

ActiveSh1tter · Answer

Haha based and red pilled woman. It's rare to find a woman as down to earth as this.

The reason women make such a big deal about rape is because they have an instinctive visceral disgust of male sexuality, the mere sight of the penis sends chills up their spine. So they only tolerate sex if they get paid well for it, like with an assurance of getting a relationship or for lots of money. If they get paid little to nothing then they go crazy as they believe they didn't get their vagina's worth, so they demand punishment and to cut off the guy's "offending package".
To sum it up there's no such thing as female sexuality and rape is just unpaid sex.

MountAverage · Answer

You don't get to decide how bad being sexually assaulted and violently raped feels to others. If you're fine with it, by all means, go get yourself raped for all I care. But don't project your disgusting attitude onto everyone else.
Also, rape has usually very little to do with sex for the rapist, and more importantly pretty much nothing to do with sex for the victim. And the latter point is what matters.

Gedaria · Answer

It's not the sex. It's the taking some thing that is wrong to take. It's upsetting when someone breaks into your house. Rape is very personal and the added part she could end up getting pregnant. That in it's self creates a lot more problems.