Did he mean all that what hw said in bed?

When we saw each other he said to me "I love you, you know".
He had been telling me all night that he loves me, that I am his love. He wanted me to sleep at his place, he insisted, but I couldn't.
It was Saturday and he went out to the club and had a couple of drinks.
He asked me if I love him, since when, why do I love him...
He asked if I love his dick or him, I said I love him too. When he was in me he wanted to cum inside me. I told him he couldn't and that I was going to get pregnant and he said he wanted it and wanted me to get pregnant to be his wife. He repeated it once more. He wanted to cum inside me.
He kept saying he loves me. He asked me if I wanted to be his wife, he asked me several times but I didn’t answer anything. He said he wanted to be with me every day.
Afterwards he was a little moody, playing some sad songs as he drove me home. He told me he was moving to another city by the end of the year. Afterwards he asked me if it would be hard for me, I laughed. And he said you don't care about me, huh?
Everything he ever told me in bed he told me even when we weren’t in bed.
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We are seeing each other for 3 years. He is 30, and I am 20.
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  • I wouldn't trust it, he sounds needy and insecure. If a woman acted that way, I'd think twice about being with her, but then again, I wouldn't be in bed with her to begin with.

  • He don't love you he can say anything he wants it what he does that proves he loves you but sounds like he doesn't know what love is and is a drunk f wit you should get away as he leaving and your young and have a lot of better choices out there that he is keeping you from

  • Okay, I see what's going on here. He's moving away, so he wants to win your heart, because he doesn't want to lose you. He wants you to come with him.

  • He seems like he likes sex. I mean if he actually loves you as he says he does then he should respect your feelings and if you are not ready for a baby then he needs to respect your wishes.

  • I'm pretty sure he meant it.

  • Why am I getting the "drunken confession vibe" here?

  • Here's something about Men:
    We can get all "romantic" and "true Love forever" moods when we're horny, then once we've finished, the mood seems to pass. It's very dangerous. The Good Men will still feel that way even after the Sexual tension, it's a great way to tell if the Guy you're seei g is after your Heart, or just your Body. (Difference between Love and Lust)

    • They’ve been having sex for years... 💁🏻‍♀️

    • Duration doesn't matter... It happens even in Relationships that have existed for Years on end.

    • My point was you said it’s a good way to differentiate lust from love-/ oh you mean literally after each sexual encounter not sex in general. Ok nvm thrn 😊

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  • If its the same guy you keep playing then yes he meant it.

  • I think he shouldn't be wanting to ask you to get pregnant when you both haven't settled down he has i insecurities he needs to work on with a therapist if he doesn't get help you will have to decide to stay or leave him but have him get help we all need help in life at some time but if he doesn't get help then he can't be secure in his life an help make a great home lufe with you jn the future

  • You really both are nut cases. LOL It's funny.

  • He sounds very clingy, desperate, and coming on to ya too strong.

  • Ashes, ashes they all fall down

  • You keep asking us questions about him but you sound like the indecisive one. I'm pretty sure he knows what he wants but I don't know what games you are playing. You are leading him on and hurting him. Honestly, make up your mind already because it's borderline cruel at this point.

  • Don't know this person but sounds like he may be pushy and demanding. Three years is a good bit of time but that alone is meaningless. Proceed with caution and avoid pregnancy.

  • Sounds like he’s a compulsive liar who hates when people lie to him.

  • Yeah

  • Lol, what a joke.
    He just used you.

  • No..

  • He sounds like a little bitch honestly.. . hed probably make a great baby daddy

  • Don't pay too much attention to promises made in the dark for they often never see the light of day. Its a bit much that he is so fixated on whether you two are in love. You should never get pregnant until you are both ready. If you are not ready then definitely not because when it all said and done you will be the one raising that child whether you are both together or not.

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