I'm the same way. It just feels like a light tickle, but nothing I can cum from. Fingering does it for me, but I'll only ever orgasm from myself rubbing my own clit.
I'm not sure if this has something to do with the idea of another person being there. But how I rub my own clit: I put pressure on the top, like, pressing it down on the hood of the clit. And then I rub it in circles, pressing down, until I build up an orgasm. I never really flick up my clit like a tongue would. That might make me flinch or quiver but it's not really out of pleasure, just more sensitivity. But I just don't think toungues are strong enough to push down like a regular finger is.
Maybe you should ask your girl to rub her clit while you finger her. And study how she does it, and play off that!
Nonetheless, I always appreciate when a guy goes down on me. I don't feel much, but it's appreciated.
it's pretty normal if we're being honest like especially as you get older because at least for me I've lost interest in it comparatively and I know quite a few of my friends have never been into it. no worries it's probably not you just her preference
Kiss the pussy gently like you would with her mouth. Lick it teasingly and take pauses to wait for her next pulsating response. Keep with the tongue strokes slow and easy as she relaxes more.
Doing it wrong mate. Start by kissing and licking the inside of her thighs and work your way in. The longer you take the hotter she'll become. It's her clit you want to lick, it's in the folds at the top covered by a hood. Don't lick it directly it may be too sensitive, depends on the woman. You can do the alphabet on it or what I do is suck it between my teeth and flick it with my tongue. Slide a finger in her whilst your doing it and she'll go nuts. When she arches her back and goes stiff she's came. Don't keep licking her it can be super sensitive and painful. She ready to be severely smashed after that though
While it's possible you're 'doing it wrong' ... can you clarify for you does fingering just mean manual stimulation in general, or do you mean fingering inside?
More women find their clit responsive than g-spot, if they have to pick one, but some women are the reverse. And that's fine!
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I have never had a guy successfully please me orally. My clit is really sensitive though and I'm really skilled at pleasuring myself, but I just feel like a lot of guys don't know how. It's likely you could be doing it wrong... sorry to say :/
Tell him !! You'd be surprised at how many young, inexperienced guys out there would just love for you to COMMUNICATE to him a play by play description of what and how to do it. I, like everyone else, don't know everything about something until taught or experience.
Oh I try 😂 I rarely do relationships though, so I don't have enough hook-up sessions with one person for them to practice, if that makes sense
It might make sense to you, to him & the whole wide world, but that makes absolutely no sense to me at all. For oral sex to be performed on hookups is beyond me. What am I to do, place a condom on my tongue? Genital Herpes... of the mouth? No thanks, I've known her for a minimum... everyone is different, but as much as I enjoy eating pussy, I'm not eating something that I just saw for the first time. Go on the internet and see what herpes does to the mouth. You'll never worry bout dating again.
I really love oral myself, but sure there are some you do not enjoy it for one reason or another.
I do know from lots of experience many guys (especially the younger ones late teens through mid twenties) are horrible at eating pussy and making it enjoyable for the girl. Many times had to slow a guy down and show him how to get it right and making it enjoyable.
For me it is. I enjoy oral so much. Not all girls enjoy it though. Like I have a friend who doesn't feel anything from oral.
Well different people like different things. You could be missing spots that they would like, or it's just not something they enjoy...
nope. I don't.
I can't speak for all girls because we're all different and are own individuals but I, for one, do enjoy it.
No you're probably not doing it wrong. Maybe she's not relaxed, comfortable with that or she may never enjoy it. I know women who have never enjoyed it & they're 50+.
Fuk yh teasing a girls pussy licking it gently and sucking on it definitely works if it's done right
I sure hope so😂😂
If she didn't get excited, it'd mean that you're just bad at it
Maybe you aren't doing it the way she likes. Trying talking to her and communicating her pleasure. You aren't a mind reader and she isn't psychic.
I do get stimulated by it, but it's boring. I hate having the guy there trying so hard to make me come. I just prefer penetration with or without orgasm.
Maybe she doesn't like clitoral stimulation. Some girls prefer penetration instead. Just ask her what she wants next time okay.
nope. some hate it
you watch a lot of porn it seems.
I do
Everyone is different, so I suppose that some women may not get anything from it. For me, I love it if a man does it right, takes the time to understand what works for me and takes his time... My ex could make me cum two or three times and that was just foreplay for him!
On the other hand, it turns me off when you can tell a guy does it just to tick a box... Better they stick to what they enjoy.
It really depends on the girl, every girl's sexual pleasure is different. some get off more from prenetration and some clit action, seems like ur girlfriend mainly gets off from the penetration
I don't know if it's normal, but maybe it's because you don't know how to do that in a pleasure way. Try to find some tips on the internet.
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