Do guys actually imagine having sex with their female friends?

[Anonymous]

saw a lot of posts on the internet confirming that, but I'm still not thoroughly convinced.

[LeoLionEye]

t's really random really since some female friend I would think about another never. It really depending on the girl and how attractive she is. Whenever it happens it's really only a sexual thing has nothing to do with personality and being friends. It's just she is an attractive girl and guys like to think about attractive women. I think it should be more of a complement than anything. That being said just because a guy thinks about it doesn't mean he wants a relationship or something to happen in real life. The odds part for me is when it comes to crushes, I can honestly say I never think about them that way, guess it's because in reality I'd like more from them so even thinking about sex with them doesn't seem like enough. For them it's more about imagining just hanging out with them and spending time together. It's weird I know.

[Anonymous]

some of them, but generally, i don't. i've probably have thought about it for most 1 time or another, but it's not like, holy shit, ima pounce on that pussy.

[Fattuesdayz]

Yes. From Jr High all throughout high school and now in my twenties, plenty of my guy friends have told me they've fantasized about me, had a dream about me, or just out right wanna sleep with me. I was always open about my sexuality, wasn't a slut, but always someone everyone was comfortable with. Guys always felt comfortable telling me those kinds of things, thinking I wouldn't tell anyone or be offended just cause I was "cool". And I didn't take offense. But that's my insight.

[helva]

As I've heard from my brothers and some of their friends I do think that guys fantasize about sex with their female friends.

[justbanANNAz]

many do, yes, but i think they'd have to have even the slightest bit of attraction towards her for that to happen.

[findingdreamland]

Congrats for being master 👊

[justbanANNAz]

aw thanks lovely! xx @findingdreamland

[Beta455]

Yes, only the pretty ones. I only need to like them sexually in order to imagine having sex with them. I usually do not imagine having sex with my crushes though, however, I would if I knew that I blow my chances to be with them.

[Curmudgeon]

Honestly? Once I am in the "friend zone" I try to put that out of my mind. Don't ruin a good friendship by making a foolish pass.

[Berethor]

Who care what they imagine? it's only fantasy, if the female friend is attractive and/or flirty enough it's can happen, but then again if a guy and girl are still only friends for a long time, it's likely to stay that way, unless both of them want an relationship update, not just one.

tvtropes.org/.../RelationshipUpgrade

[findingdreamland]

I hope they dont 🙈

[performerwannabe]

Oh my God. Why do they do that?

[DodgersGM]

I believe that a majority do, yes. A lot of men outgrow it, though.

[Xelebrum]

Many do, yes.

[cinderelli]

I hope not.. :/

[adamax]

if there is some attraction there, girl is pretty of course, don't women?

[blue_sun]

I really only have one female friend, and I have a LONG standing crush on her, so yeah, definitely for me. ( 2.5 years and counting on that crush.)

[RedThread]

Nah. If I wanted them as more than friends I wouldn't have made them friends.. I would've pursued more.

[Ihav2fart]

Some do whole others do not.

I have in the past but haven't done so in a long long time.

[mlts70]

I remember when I was young, I would imagine having sex with just about any woman who was still breathing.

Now that I'm older, the crazy lust has died down a bit. I'm only interested in having sex with my partner. Really. (... having a nice thought about Jennifer Lawrence... )

[zagor]

Not a yes or no question. Some of them, definitely. Others, not at all. I've have good female friends that I wasn't at all attracted to (and of course they're always the ones who do so...) who made it rather clear from their comments that they'd like to be, uh, closer. I feigned being oblivious to their point so as to not hurt their feelings.

[SlightlyCrazy]

Unless she's like another sister, then yes we do. Want to be my friend

[blondfrog]

Yeah but not all of them

[Yumix]

I'd lie if I'd say it would have never happened yet. But only if I'm strongly attracted to her

[Words_and_Wisdom]

I don't. At least not often. Only one woman excites me enough to keep her in my mind, but she's married so kinda pointless for me to bother sexualizing her.

[dudegrt09]

Ofcourse if she is good looking I wouldn't be able to help it

[Payman]

Depends on damn many things! But generally no!