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  • Honestly, I have to say, I have probably never told a woman when I am about to cum. In fact, I asked my girlfriend of 14 years and she says that, although she has not exactly kept track, she does not recall a time when I said anything.

    For me, when I begin to orgasm I get really lost in the moment. The instinct to thrust is intense and if I can vocalize at all all it is mostly cuss words or just "grunts and moans," as my girlfriend puts it.

    My girlfriend and I tend to a more primitive sex. Not in a BDSM sense with "whips and chains," but in a primal instinctive sense. We are just two animals breeding in a field and that does not exactly lend itself to status reports on when I am about to cum.

    Still, even when we are more romantic, by the time I reach orgasm and I am about to release my seed, The physical demands on my body - believe it or not, sex is actually rather stressful on the male body, with involuntary muscle spasms, elevated breathing, etc. - and the emotional intensity really work against me verbalizing.

    It is not that I would not try, but as my three out-of-wedlock children suggest, sending out a warning notice to my girlfriend that I am about to cum is not something that she can count on. Don't worry though, we are happy with that.

  • No. Some girls don't like to be told, and some guys don't like to talk or have trouble talking during that moment. Like everything else, it varies.

    Some girls really like to hear it - both to know what to do (if she wants his cum in a certain place), and because it's a turn-on for them. So this is really a conversation you need to have with your guy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My current boyfriend doesn't have to say it anymore, I notice it myself when he's ready to cum. It used to be different. One had always said it and one other never did. However, I think it would be better (if I didn't even notice) that my boyfriend was warning me, at least if he would cum in my mouth.

  • Usually, sometimes i can tell others ill get no warning

    • Usually I can tell if he is about to cum

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  • for me they seldom do but like most girls who give blowjobs we know when they're about to cum anyway... they're cocks expand more so than before then you get a nice cream delight depending on your perspective.

  • Not always no
    I kind of prefer when he doesn't tell me

  • Nope

  • No, not in my experience but I usually can tell when they are about to. And anyways, I'd prefer not having the guy tell me. I prefer telling him to cum for me :)

    • I love hearing "I want you to cum for me baby."

  • Not if we're already in the neighborhood. Sometimes we just like to show up and surprise you.

  • No not all guys announce it.
    I usually don't.

  • AH NO! Many times that magical moment happens without any warning and especially if he has a small penis and you don't feel it pulsing just before he ejaculates.

  • Lol i hope not because if thsts happening then im in the wrong place at the wrong time,,, as for girls. Yes its more of a yelling then a telling if they tell it then i will just about stop but it all depends how close she is i love more build up but there are times u just can't do that u better make it happen like never before

  • I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, but when I did, I would always tell her. I would tell her as soon as the sensation started building. So, several seconds before. To her it was a huge turn on for me to say it.

  • No, but most of us try to let you know right before it happens.

    To be fair we get about as much notice as you do before you sneeze so often say it too late.

  • Not always depends on situation - I think the reason males announce our time their cum is just we are not built like girls who are capable of multi orgasms - A guy has to have an idea of a schedule like say I went in like a jack hammer came 3 times in 10 minutes and woman wanted a 2 hour session "Houston we have a problem" so a guy might have a timetable, maybe experienced or couples who are used to each other will be working to his timetable to keep in tune with woman but say you have a good session and girl lets you know she is done , you maybe went for a mutual orgasm but lost your mutual rhythym but the man still had to come one last time. He would finish off without feeling need to announce he is cumming, he would let his body tell woman

  • I do, especially if she asks me to.

  • Maybe, depending on the situatuon 🤷‍♂️

  • I do both until I figure out which the girl prefers. Usually girls prefer to know, especially for oral.

    • I like to know for oral

    • If you know does it make it easier for you to swallow

    • @Dave88 no I always swallow

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  • If i`m ever having sex without a condom i will always pull it out long before i start cumming, i`m i`m wearing a condom i`ll just carry on.
    If i`m masturbating over a girl or she is giving me a hand job and she tells me where i can cum on her body i don`t say anything, otherwise i will always tell her

  • Nope

  • Not always, but you can usually tell they’re close

    • How?

  • No, although it is considered good manners when receiving head so she doesn't get a difficult to handle surprise.

  • I don't always do that because my girlfriend says she can tell. But sometimes she tells me to say it because she says hearing it turns her on. Do you have a preference?

  • I tend to warn a girl. let say "o I am getting close".

    • *like I'll say*

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