Do guys feel nervous the first time they have sex with their girl?

If you haven’t had sex, do you feel nervous about having it? Do they even think about nerves or is it just automatic?
Do guys feel nervous the first time they have sex with their girl?
Yes, I’m nervous the first time
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No, not nervous
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  • When it was like my very first time ever, a little bit anxious and I had a weird thumper like reaction in my leg.

    It passed the more I had sex.

  • not really nervous, more like let's go already

  • I am still a virgin, hope so that situation may arise soon so that I can answer this question with honesty and do justice with answer 😅

  • I was 16 when I fist had sex and the woman I was with was a 39 year old so I think nervous would be an understatement, she was patient with me though and taught me things as we progressed. Magnificent woman, very few have ever come close to comparing to her.

  • I was nervous my first time but only been with one girl so 👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨🤷

  • I'm never nervous about nearly anything... so in my case; no. I don't get nervous. I am sure many guys do though, because that would only be natural.

  • Yes.

  • Of course lol we wanna make you feel the best we can and most of all not come to quick but being so nervous usually ends up being most guys down fall

  • Nope, I take the reins and get the job done.

  • ur question is different to the description so ill answer both. yes i was nervous the first few times i ever had sex but now im not nervous at all and its probably the place im most confident actually

  • Depends on the girl and the situation (will she be my girlfriend or only an ons)
    But normally not

  • Yes of course we get nervous at our first time because we always afraid if might screw things up or ejaculate too early

    Some would even lose their erection from it

    • You'd more than likely cum too fast with me, most of them do but I give second chances to people I really like. Last guy I was with couldn't cum, very strange but I could tell he liked it.

    • Interesting... did he lost his erection during sex? Or was he still hard but couldn't cum?

  • Nervous because I want to pleasure her and make it a good experience for her.

  • obviously every first time with a new girl makes us nervous, cause everyone likes different things and you can't be 100% sure if you can please them.

  • I think it could apply to both genders why it only has to be the woman. Now do guys feel nervous when they bang a virgin even if they are not virgin

    • The later one I think depends highly on the type of guy we are talking about... some would not give a damn I think, but speaking for myself... Id be very nervous... because I hold the responsibility... being the more experienced one... and thinking that she chose me to be her first... I dont want her to have any bad memories of it... I've heard enough stories of women having problems later on just because their first guy was too dumb or just careless...

  • If they're not drunk, then yes.

  • Everyone feels nervous first time they do something.

  • Of course there’s nerves.

  • I'm not nervous. But after my experience, I know what I'm doing and how to notice how and to what the one I'm with responds to.
    Having fun, safety and respect =)

    • Thank you for your answer 😄

    • Thank you for the guestion and the smile I got while thinking about this =)

    • I’m glad you found some entertainment from it ☺️

  • I'm still a virgin, but I just know I'm going to be a nervous wreck, but it will be a shared nervousness because you're both seeing each other naked for the first time, and being vulnerable.

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